KP Sport Horses

KP Sport Horses Specializing in dressage and young horse training, I have a passion for whole horse health.

Approaching each horse as an individual and working from the ground up to creat a happy healthy partner both mentally and physically.

Practicing taking everyone out with Zi driving today in preparation for Acadia. We leave on Tuesday! Everyone is getting...
09/05/2026

Practicing taking everyone out with Zi driving today in preparation for Acadia. We leave on Tuesday! Everyone is getting excited šŸ˜† Now is crunch time for packing everything. Time to jam everything in the trailer for 3 horses, 3 people and a dog 🤪 We decided to go one more day this year, so 4 nights and 5 days. Going to get in lots of miles with the ponies. Crossing our fingers for good weather.

09/03/2026

Jimmy has reminded me that around 5 with young horses is when things really get hard. She is absolutely in a fear phase right now. The world around her is going to eat her, oh and she’s discovering her opinion on things. She is still a phenomenal young horse, not truly doing anything wrong. She is sensitive though. Something we often take for granted or perhaps punish in a lot of cases. Jimmy communicates clearly when something is bothering her. This week for example she’s been a little sore from working hard. When grooming I found a particularly sore spot and she immediately pinned her ears and gave me a nasty look. I inspected the spot further and therefore added more pressure when she clearly asked me to stop and she lifted a leg. Many people would have gotten extremely upset at their horse in this moment and likely hit them. But Jimmy is a very sweet and well mannered mare. It’s unlike her to behave that way. And she never directed it at me but rather was communicating the only way she knew how. And when I didn’t listen, because I needed more information, she made her no more firm. Why should I punish her for that?

Now she’s a red mare. Many people would’ve seen this and said ā€œwell that’s a red mare for youā€ as an excuse to ignore or even punish the behavior. But I have never and will never believe that stereotype. Mares communicate more clearly. They speak up more often. They set boundaries. Mostly we use marish as an excuse to be harsh with them and force them to conform.

But I love my opinionated mares. I want them to be outspoken. I find my mares who are allowed to communicate are often the gentlest horses I work with. They are independent and strong, willing to work hard. They really aren’t marish at all. Because they’re behavior like Jimmy this week, it’s not behavior at all. It’s communication and it’s my responsibility to listen and translate. Jimmy lifting a leg was not directed at me, infact at this stage in our relationship I think I’d have to really offend her in a nasty way for her to actually try to kick me. Because I have shown her that when she communicates I will listen. I won’t punish her or get mad. I won’t ignore it or do things to stop her communication. But I will work to make it better and understand her. That’s where so many people lose with mares especially but horses in general. I believe mares are just more willing to put up a fight. Geldings are more often going to shut down and disconnect, which in turn appears as compliance. Neither are what I want for my horses. I want partners willing and excited to work with me. I want horses who will snuggle and love on me because I make them feel safe.

Counting down the days until we leave for our Acadia trip!! Can’t wait to get back to this beautiful place with our poni...
08/29/2026

Counting down the days until we leave for our Acadia trip!! Can’t wait to get back to this beautiful place with our ponies!

08/28/2026

Here’s to sure footed ponies with sound minds!

Yesterday on our trail ride to get miles for Acadia Jimmy got a little over excited at the lake and found herself in over her head, literally šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø. Naturally water and a bouncing 5yr old did not make it easy for a rider to stay on so she baled, rightfully so. Luckily other then being soaked water made for a soft landing and everyone was fine.

Jimmy though being 5 has never experienced something like this, she’s never even had someone come off her before. She was nervous and to our surprise left her bestie Lindy to head home. We were a few miles from home and across a decently busy street. On Hops and Lindy we tried to keep up but very quickly lost her on the winding trails. So we called the barn to let them know she was hopefully coming and went that way. No sign of Jimmy on our normal route or back at the barn. And thank god no sign of her at the road. Zoe and I had quite the fast ride back to the road, flying through the woods hoping to spot her, and I am so grateful to have horses who have gotten out of the arena enough to gallop through uneven 4 wheeling trails with roots and rocks and hills.

Jimmy did not take our usual path home so we never caught up to her. So yes absolutely the panic set in that my girl was out in the woods somewhere and it was getting dark. Just as we’re heading back out on Lindy and Hops to do another sweep of the usual trails, there’s Jimmy. Slowly and calmly walking towards us on the main path. Totally fine, just missing a bridle.

Nobody ever wants to be in this situation but we all know s**t happens with horses no matter what you do. I am eternally grateful to have such amazing horse that handle situations thrown at them like champs. And I’m honestly so proud of Jimmy that somewhere along the way she stopped and thought enough to collect herself and walk calmly towards home. That little bit of processing her emotions could have saved her life in the long run. There’s a big difference having a horse full gallop, complete panic running through the woods and across the road vs. walking calmly home and across that same road. It may be the very thing that saved her from being hit by a car or severely hurting herself in some other way in her panic.

In the end everything worked out totally fine and Jimmy came home in one piece with nothing but a small skinned spot above her knee. A good horse is absolutely worth their weight in gold, I’m grateful my young lady, and outstanding horse in the making, is learning just like those before her to solve problems on her own.

Happy gotcha day Jimmy! Another year with this goofy girl terrorizing us with her antics 🤪
08/26/2026

Happy gotcha day Jimmy! Another year with this goofy girl terrorizing us with her antics 🤪

08/26/2026

A dirt bike comes flying around a blind turn while on a trail ride, what does your horse do?

This happened to us last night. He was easily going 25mph before spotting us. The driver tried to break as soon as seeing us but caught up in the sand and rocks he clearly had no choice but to continue or else he risked wiping out entirely and probably getting seriously hurt. He slowed as much as possible and apologized as he passed.

Now I’m not complaining, we actually ride on an off roading clubs trails because they allow us to. They maintain the trails too. And this has been the ā€˜worst’ encounter we’ve had and it was totally an accident, he was sorry, he hand no clue we were around the corner and he could’ve been seriously hurt had he kept braking in the loose sand and rocks.

So I ask, what would your horse have done? All 3 of ours pricked their ears up and watched him pass by. Not even a flinch.

I find people often telling me I’m lucky to have such chill horses and get to take them out on all these adventures. I’m blessed but not lucky just to be clear. Each of these horses has had a significant amount of training to get here.

Not desensitizing training actually. I have never done desensitizing with my horses. Exposure to life around them absolutely but desensitizing in the traditional sense is not something I believe in. More often then not traditional desensitizing is actually flooding the horse emotionally until they shut down and are perceived as calm. However this usually causes a horse to internalize their fear and often times become more explosive unexpectedly.

Instead I work on my horse’s confidence. One part of this is small exposure often. If there’s something truly scary you could place it within sight where they might look at it but not react, and leave it there for a few days before moving it closer and closer and even into their environment. Or a different example is introducing a horse to trail riding. Often I see people decide to go trail riding after years in the ring. They march right out there and halfway through the ride their horse is panicked and dangerous and they’re mad at them. When I get a new horse in I start first cooling down around the barn, then around the paddocks then with buddies who are calm well slowly go out farther and farther over many rides. This is exposing the horse without pushing them past their comfort zone. It also allows for opportunities like a bike or loose dog to happen in a place they are already comfortable and therefore be less scary.

Another confidence builder that people often hate is rewarding the horse for investigating and approaching what’s scary. I ask them to take one step closer then stop, relax, give them love and even a treat if I have it. I’ll do this for a long while if I have to. The horse learns when something is scary I can look to my rider for reassurance and comfort before panicking. That is a huge breakthrough with any horse. More often I see horses who are repeatedly punished either with excessive kicking, spurring, whipping or smacking when they spook. Being forcefully pushed towards the scary object as punishment for daring to show emotion. News flash, they’re flight animals. That’s quite literally how they’re wired to stay safe. In the long run the horse starts to associate spooking with increased pain and punishment. For some they shut down and internalize it, but anyone with anxiety will tell you that’s a horrible way to live. For others they become more spooky or even violent out of fear of punishment. They get scared and then get more scared of being punished for it. And somehow the horse gets blamed, not the actions of the human.

All 3 of our horses didn’t even react. Something that would unravel many a horse and made all of the riders startle. And no it’s not because of their breed. Two chestnut thoroughbred mares, one just 5 years old and an Arabian cross who’s got enough fire in him to burn the world if we let him. All 3 moved on like nothing happened and I could not be more proud!

On vacation in Arizona and of course we had to go find some wild horses!! We went for a lazy tubing adventure down Salt ...
08/18/2026

On vacation in Arizona and of course we had to go find some wild horses!! We went for a lazy tubing adventure down Salt River through some stunning scenery with the hopes of maybe seeing some horses since they live in the area. Watch a few wade through the water and the. A few stallions come by. They were right there less then 50 feet away, not a care in the world! This herd is very lucky to be in an area with lots of water access and vegetation, all seemed healthy (except for the dead one we passed 😬). Not many herds are as lucky as these.

08/13/2026

A horse rarely reacts only to the thing happening in that exact moment.

It may look as though he exploded because a plastic bag moved, another horse came too close, or you asked him to stand still. But his nervous system may already have been carrying the trailer journey, unfamiliar surroundings, separation from his herd, uncomfortable tack, excess energy, pain, a tense rider and six smaller moments of worry that nobody noticed.

This is called trigger stacking.

Each individual stressor may have been manageable on its own. But stress accumulates. Eventually the horse reaches the limit of what his nervous system can contain, and the next seemingly insignificant thing tips him over the edge.

That final trigger gets blamed because it is the one we can see. We say, ā€œHe lost his mind over nothing,ā€ without recognising that it was never only about that one thing. The bucket was already full. The plastic bag was simply the last drop.

This is why context matters so much when looking at behaviour. We need to consider what happened earlier that day, how the horse has been managed, whether he is in pain, how much sleep and movement he has had, what has changed in his environment and how much pressure he has already been coping with.

The reaction may seem far bigger than the moment warrants, but it may be exactly as big as the accumulation warrants.

Looking beneath the behaviour does not mean ignoring dangerous reactions or having no boundaries. It means responding to the whole horse instead of punishing him for the final visible moment of a struggle we did not see building.

Sometimes the horse is not overreacting to what just happened.

Sometimes he is finally reacting to everything that happened before it.

08/12/2026

Not much out there better than this! My perfect retired lesson horse! There really isn’t anything quite like becoming the person for a lifetime lesson horse in their retirement. Champ and now Cadete!

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