10/08/2025
In 2020 I found after a breakup that showed me I wasn’t nearly the partner I thought I was.
I had been lying to myself, pretending I was so satisfied with my relationship in all these areas.
When in reality I was so unfulfilled, specially in the bedroom…and so was she.
Can you believe I had never asked my partners, “what are you into OR how do you like it?”
So in 2022 I enrolled myself and my girlfriend at the time into Something More event (back then called My K|nky Valentine), and since then I never looked back.
I came out of Something More having practiced and learned how to truly be in tune with others, how to use play as a means for exploration with my girlfriend, and more importantly, I felt free to be more me which carried to every single area of my life.
I am always thankful for the part of me that listened to the voice that said “push your edges and go have fun, it doesn’t have to be all “work”.
