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Can you surrender to your body’s need for deep rest?It amazes me how hard this is for most of us, how hard this was for ...
08/02/2022

Can you surrender to your body’s need for deep rest?

It amazes me how hard this is for most of us, how hard this was for me for many years. My poor body asking for a slower pace, a softer approach, and far more rest…yet I wouldn’t listen.

I was too afraid of being lazy, that others would think less of me, that I’d be left behind or left out on my desires or my purpose.

I also think it has deep seeds in earning good things, earning love, earning self worth. It’s so sad to me to look back on my life and how often I was burnt out and half living believing in a lie that I needed to be more productive to be good enough.

I’m not saying there isn’t a place for productivity, but how did productivity become more valuable than rest. How did doing become more important than our own bodies wisdom.

This is one of the biggest issues most people I work with face. Which tells me it’s part of a deeper programming. Programming that truly doesn’t have our best interest in mind. As long as we are productive at any cost, obviously we are expendable…

I say no to that bs. Big fat NO. And if you need permission to rest, consider this your permission slip. How sick and exhausted do we need to become for this to change? How much more do we need to kill our feminine energy before this changes?

If you are tired my love, it’s ok. Lay your sweet head down and relax. Rest. It will all be there when you want to return to it.

It took me a long time to tell the difference…I think for many of us we confuse our readiness with worthiness. We think ...
07/12/2022

It took me a long time to tell the difference…
I think for many of us we confuse our readiness with worthiness. We think that the lack of some thing like a job, money, purpose, relationship, love, etc is proof that we are in fact unworthy.

The sad fact is you may be creating a self fulfilling prophecy excepting a fate that was never really meant for you because you’ve missed this very basic principle. If we desire some thing in our lives we have to prepare space for it in our lives.

If you want the relationship of your dreams, a beautiful desire for sure, how are you preparing yourself for your life to receive it? Is there space in your life, your home, and your heart for this person? Have you created time, focus, and the ability to commit? Are you present in your life for or are you full of distractions? Where do you think this perfect person is going to fit? Have you become the partner that would attract this profound love?

Or say it’s money you want. Have you developed a relationship with money that is loving and kind? Have you gotten clear with yourself where this money will go and what this money will do in the world? How will the money serve you and the people you love? Have you become a beacon for abundance or are you just obsessed with money?

For myself I finally had to realize that not having the things I wanted had very little to do with my Worthiness and everything to do with my readiness.

Whatever is your desire, whatever it is that you want to have in your life, know that you are worthy. So now that you know that you are completely and totally worthy, how will you get ready? I’d love to know

I’m struck by the beauty and power of women gathering togetherA few weeks ago when I was visiting Colorado a friend of m...
07/09/2022

I’m struck by the beauty and power of women gathering together

A few weeks ago when I was visiting Colorado a friend of mine and I sat in a park and each of us invited our friends to join.

One by one they came and before we knew it a spontaneous informal Women’s circle was formed.

Women, babies, dogs, all gathered together on a beautiful summer’s day in the mountains.

I was moved by the presence of these ladies and the depth of conversation. As well as the joy and ease and laughter.

I’ve been to many formal Women’s circles but this was special. And it showed me a window into a truth, that women need other women.

That it is inherently natural and maybe even woven into our codes as women that we gather together. Something so sacred about it.

It also strikes me how much of that is lost in a modernized world.

Maybe it’s just me, but I think signs of it changing are happening more than ever.

Its my deepest hope, that more women will gather together and let their warmth and compassion and love grow exponentially and spill out into the world around us.


Is the mental, emotional, and physical wellness crisis due because we’ve lost connection with our hearts?I had a deep re...
07/07/2022

Is the mental, emotional, and physical wellness crisis due because we’ve lost connection with our hearts?

I had a deep realization the other day. That healing has everything to do with the heart (energetic heart that is).

That a healer or healing modality is only as useful as the openness of the healers heart or the heart of the one being healed. This goes for emotional or physical healing.

And when I say healer that goes for all of them, Doctors, Chiropractors, Acupuncturist, Shamans, Therapists, Coaches…anyone.

I think we experience a little healing through belief. Belief can open the heart even enough to get some healing. Belief in the healer of their modality or belief of the person in their healer.

“ ..if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move..”

The Epiphany I had was that most of the time we are accessing a fraction of the full potential of healing.

Because we are all still in our heads and have very little emotional connection to our healers. Imagine what healing could happen with a heart fully open.

I think that’s why Jesus healed people so miraculously. It’s all about the heart.

So what if we stopped throwing pills and techniques at each other and started to be present and really deeply care for the other?
What if we opened our hearts to the full spectrum of compassion and love for the person who was in front of us? What would the wellness, health care, and healing industries look like then?

I can’t smell…I’ve been sick. It’s been a longer recovery than I had hoped. It’s been almost two weeks. And I’m ok, gett...
07/05/2022

I can’t smell…I’ve been sick. It’s been a longer recovery than I had hoped. It’s been almost two weeks. And I’m ok, getting closer and closer to 💯

But I still can’t smell. And I love all my senses so much.

My life was often wrapped up in my love of the sense of smell. My favorite incense burns while I do my morning practices, the smell of my bath products and lotions for my body, candles burning while I work with my clients during the day, and my essential oils before bed. Not to mention the smell of food and the soft scent of jasmine that I often smell in my morning walks.

So I’m taking delight in my other senses. Especially color and texture. The color of red activates and inspires me. The way a flowy dress plays against my legs when I dance around my room. And I’m reminded once again that I’m so grateful to be alive. And to have aliveness flowing through my body. Even with one of my senses down. It’s all so perfect. Everyday, every moment is sacred. Thank you🙏🏻

I have a questionAnd I mean this in the sincerest sort of wayDo you think you’ve experienced real intimacy? Not just ple...
07/04/2022

I have a question
And I mean this in the sincerest sort of way
Do you think you’ve experienced real intimacy?

Not just pleasure, not just connected
But in-to-me-you-see INTIMACY
Raw, stripped bare, every crevice unearthed
No masks, no projections, no roles
All of your hopes and fears, dreams and failures, insecurities and childlike longing
Your breakdowns and your breakthroughs
Your shadow and your light
Nothing to hide

Don’t talk to me about intimacy unless your willing to risk your own sense of false security (not talking about healthy boundaries here but those walls and barriers you put up between you and love). S*x and s*xual pleasure isn’t intimacy in itself, and it’s a poor substitute for actual intimacy. Men, women, we all feel it’s emptiness when there’s a lack of real intimacy.

Show me a relationship that is void of true intimacy and I’ll show you a relationship that is rotting from the inside out. It doesn’t matter how good the s*x is or how much you have in common. It’s not sustainably satisfying. You deserve better, we all deserve better.

What you’re looking for isn’t a just a relationship, you’re looking for intimacy. That’s what fills our hearts and makes this all worth living. It’s the bravest thing you could ever do, the best investment you could ever make…To open your heart and let another in ❤️

There’s lots of things I don’t knowBut here are a few things I do…I know that women are the most magical creatures I’ve ...
06/28/2022

There’s lots of things I don’t know
But here are a few things I do…

I know that women are the most magical creatures I’ve ever laid eyes on
I know that nothing is more powerful than the the sometimes fierce and awesome power of a woman’s love and compassion
I know (from studies) that when we invest in women, women give back to there families and communities
I know that women thrive in community with other women. Not this BS that says we should compare and be competitive against each other
The greatest bonds I’ve made is connection to other women in my life
I’d be truly a shell of myself without sisterhood
I crave the connection and deep intimacy that friendship with another woman provides me
That when we support each other and gather together we are stronger than when we are alone
That it is often through adversity that we rise to our fullest potential
That the divine feminine awakening has been gaining momentum for years now and cannot be stopped
It took me 29 years to begin to embrace how wonderful it was to be graced with a female body and feminine essence
I will continue to give care, support, and compassion to the women I work with and love in my life.
Everyday is a beautiful day to love, honor, and respect *and protect* the women in your life ❤️ pictured: my beloved friend
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“Be here now”…sure no problem 🤪 the simplest thing yet so hard to do sometimes. We know that everything we want and need...
04/26/2022

“Be here now”…sure no problem 🤪 the simplest thing yet so hard to do sometimes. We know that everything we want and need is in the present moment. We know the sayings, memes, and teachings on it. Yet why is it so hard for us to be here now, to be present?

For me I have had a long history of dissociation. Nobody would know it either. My body was here but my energy was outside of it. It became normal. I never knew how much harm it was causing even though I thought (unconsciously) it was making me safe.

When I wasn’t present I couldn’t attune to my needs, I would attract things that weren’t right for myself, I would feel like I was living life behind a plain of glass. I had a hard time feeling alive.

But aliveness is why we are all here. And it’s such a travesty to imagine being here and not Being HERE Now. Not being fully here, fully present, fully alive.

It’s still a practice for me. Possibly a lifelong practice. Until I master it I’ll wear hats to remind me, do mediations (not still my mind but help me be with what is), concentrate on my breath (box breathing is my fav), sit in nature, enlist my partner to help me ground and feel safe in my body, Savor the moment, and take lots of time for gratitude.

How do you stay present?

Just a little goodbye photo shoot for my long hair. Thanks to  for making it so special 💕.                              ...
04/20/2022

Just a little goodbye photo shoot for my long hair. Thanks to for making it so special 💕. Caring for my hair turned into an unexpected journey of self-love, it feels really good to give it a loving send off and to know someone else will have all that hair 💕. If your curious about my how I grew my grew my hair super long I did a YouTube video on it a few months ago. Links in my profile 😘

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙤𝙖𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙖𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 ✨This was a hard learned lesson for me. I took me years to reali...
04/20/2022

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙤𝙖𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙖𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 ✨

This was a hard learned lesson for me. I took me years to realize that if I spent all my time in stress, fear, self-doubt, and pressure that I wouldn’t end up in peace, joy, satisfaction, and happiness.

It’s not so much what you do but how you do that thing that matters most.

So now if I want something or if I’m creating something I stop to check in with how I desire to feel at that outcome. Joy is always a big desire of mine. So if it’s joy I ask myself can I bring joy to my experience even before I’ve gotten to the end result? If my destination is joy don’t I have to take the road that leads to joy to get there?

What road are you paving? 💗

Just me. Nothing more. Nothing less. 💗        📷
04/13/2022

Just me. Nothing more. Nothing less. 💗 📷

𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦  ✨This is one of my favorite practices and it only takes a few seconds. Take a deep breath with me ...
04/12/2022

𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 ✨This is one of my favorite practices and it only takes a few seconds. Take a deep breath with me (inhale) look up and notice life all around you, even if you’re alone notice your own aliveness (exhale) welcome to the present moment ♥

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