08/11/2026
The Real Reason Writing Feels Hard
I believe writing your book is supposed to be fun.
Not easy every second. Not effortless. There will absolutely be moments when you wrestle with an idea, rethink a chapter, or wonder how the heck everything in your head is going to become an actual book.
But the process itself?
It should feel exciting.
You should have moments when something finally clicks and you think, YES. That’s exactly what I’ve been trying to say.
You should start seeing your ideas more clearly. Your message getting stronger. Your book becoming something you’re genuinely proud to put your name on.
And if you’re not feeling any of that… something is wrong.
Maybe you’re trying to force yourself through a process that doesn’t fit you.
Maybe you’re working with someone who’s making your book feel like their project instead of yours.
Or maybe you’re selling yourself short—trying so hard to sound “professional” or “like an author” that you’ve sucked all the YOU out of it.
Please don’t do that.
The right process should give you more clarity, not more confusion. The right person should help you sound more like yourself, not less. And your book should leave you feeling more confident about your ideas and the people you can help.
If you’re writing a book right now, what does the process feel like: energizing or exhausting?
Tell me in the comments.