07/24/2020
IS THERE AN AREA IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU ARE REALLY UNHAPPY WITH?😔
Truth is, the easiest thing you can do when you are unhappy with your life is to blame someone else, or blame a past event for your unhappiness.🤬
Maybe you are in relationship with someone and you feel like that person is not meeting your expectations in some ways.⛔️
Maybe you quit your job and started a new one thinking that you’ll be happier but you find yourself in the same scenario over and over again.⛔️
In the past, I found myself blaming other people and external events for my unhappiness and misfortune. I was thinking to myself that I am a victim of external circumstances and have no control.😔
That’s a tough mindset to get out of because culture, society, parents, friends, teachers, schools, etc shaped our belief system and the way we think things should be.🧠
We start measuring everything against how we think things should be outside of our control, then we quickly get disappointed and unhappy when things don’t meet our expectations.😒
You are giving things outside of you so much control. A person must learn the difference between the things they can change and the things they cannot control, and let go of everything outside of their control.🙏🏼
The most effective way to get out of this destructive rabbit hole is to stop blaming others and take responsibility for what you have allowed to manifest in your life.🌱
LIFE IS A DANCE AND THE MUSIC DOESN’T STOP! You can either take the lead or let life lead you. The first step is awareness of your victim mindset and its implications on the way you are creating your life. The more you think you are a victim, the more life will give you things to affirm that belief. You must change the way you think about the things that are making you unhappy. Only when you take responsibility and shift your way of thinking, will you free up yourself and your energy to start creating the life you want.💡
This is a segment of the work I do with my clients and I feel so blessed that I get to support my clients in these extraordinary transformations. I absolutely love seeing my clients have these breakthroughs, it fulfills my soul!🏔