06/18/2026
Do you feel like you understand your husband? I know that it’s a journey that seems never-ending, doesn’t it?
But perhaps that’s because, deep down, we’re not meant to completely understand them.
Men and women, as we know, are wired quite differently.
So, let’s chat about some of the things that I’ve found (by asking them) that men actually care about:
❤️ They cherish moments when we laugh, show physical affection, and support their endeavors. But more than that, they long for understanding and validation in their roles as husbands and fathers.
❤️ Men appreciate clear and direct communication, whether it’s about household responsibilities, financial decisions, or simply expressing needs and desires. See if you can focus on acknowledging and affirming their efforts, instead of pointing out what they aren’t doing.
❤️ Men also need space and self-care. Men value moments of solitude and activities they enjoy, just as much as we do. By supporting their hobbies and giving them time to recharge, you are nurturing them AND your relationship.
Listen to the 85th MomsLikeUs Podcast episode, “Bold and Spicy Marriage Advice” to better understand your man. ❤️