06/16/2026
If you've been exercising consistently for a while or you're someone who's always on the go, one of the hardest things to learn is when to slow down.
We often think success comes from pushing harder, doing more, and powering through. But sometimes the most important skill is recognizing when your body is asking for a break. I'm reminding myself of this lesson right now.
It always seems to happen the same way. A few stressful days. A couple of bad nights of sleep. Life gets busy, but I keep pushing forward anyway. Then I head into a workout and my body finally decides it's had enough. That's exactly what happened to me yesterday.
I was doing chin ups and everything felt fine. I finished my set, went to stretch, moved the wrong way, and suddenly all the muscles in my upper back and lower neck locked up. The injury didn't happen because the workout was too hard. It happened because my body had been accumulating stress for days and I wasn't paying enough attention to the warning signs.
The reality is that your body is usually communicating with you long before something goes wrong; aybe you're feeling unusually tired, your motivation is low, you're sore in places that normally aren't sore, you're feeling mentally drained, emotionally overwhelmed, or struggling to recover between workouts, etc. Those signals matter.
Listening to your body doesn't mean you stop exercising every time you're tired. It means you learn to adjust. Maybe today's workout becomes a walk or you use lighter weights. Maybe you spend extra time stretching and recovering or you simply go to bed earlier and give yourself permission to rest. The goal isn't to avoid hard work. The goal is to avoid pushing so hard that your body eventually forces you to stop.
Most of us have been there. We know better, and yet we keep doing it anyway. We ignore the signals, convince ourselves we'll be fine, and then wonder what happened when something starts hurting.
So here's my reminder to you today: Listen to your body before it starts yelling. Slow down when you need to, rest when you need to, recover before *&^% hits the fan. Your future self will thank you for it.
If you're struggling to find the balance between pushing yourself and recovering properly, reach out to me. I'd love to help you create a plan that supports your goals without leaving you feeling run down, exhausted, or injured.
Ashley Brodeur, MS, CSCS
Owner, Active Lifestyle Fitness