Amicus Curiae PCS

22/06/2026

A conversation that started in Singapore is now being heard across the region.

This week, South China Morning Post featured MenToo and the men choosing to speak openly about what they carry.

One of them, Amir Khan, put it better than we could: "I realised that strength actually means having the courage to ask for help when you're not at your best. And I think that's what the MenToo movement teaches men to do."

That's the whole idea. Strength isn't going it alone. It's knowing when to reach out.
To everyone helping these conversations grow: this is your story being heard too.

https://www.scmp.com/week-asia/people/article/3357753/singaporean-men-are-fighting-be-heard-movement-letting-them-do-just?utm_source=copy-link&utm_campaign=3357753&utm_medium=share_widget

Nicholas Gabriel Danny Loong

21/06/2026

Just this Friday, we sat in on something quietly moving. Fathers and their children, building side by side in a hands-on workshop. The real thing being built, though, was attention. The kind that says I see you, and I'm here.

That's the thing about fathers.

You are more important than you know. More appreciated than you know. The impact you make rarely announces itself, but it lasts.

And the research agrees. Across decades of studies, children with engaged, warm fathers show stronger emotional and social development, and better academic outcomes too. One recent finding even suggests this effect is felt most strongly among children here in Asia.

So to every father reading this: we believe in you, we honour you, and we respect you. Today and every day, we're cheering you on.

Happy Father's Day.

Nicholas Gabriel Danny Loong

12/06/2026

Something is shifting in how Singapore talks about men.

Last week, The Straits Times ran a piece on abused husbands, men rarely recognised as victims, and even more rarely believed. This week, The Business Times published a thoughtful piece on Singapore men, and on the launch of MenToo.

Two papers, in a single week. A conversation that has been waiting is starting to find its voice.

One question from the BT piece has stayed with us, from Brian Liu of Bros Before Woes: maybe the real question isn't whether Singapore men are oppressed, but what kind of men Singapore produces.

That moves the conversation past pity or competition, and onto something we can shape: the systems, expectations, and silences that form how men learn to live, love, and ask for help.

This is what MenToo was built for, alongside Bros Before Woes and the 11 other groups who signed the charter on 6 June. It's also why we've partnered with Murdoch University for five years to conduct research on topics related to men, so that what we build for men rests on evidence, and reaches them in ways that actually work.

Thanks to both papers for treating this seriously, and to every group showing up to do the work. Bros Before Woes, Centre For Fathering, Real Men Co, The Ordinary Dad, Forum On The Richness Of Manhood, Men-Kind, The Fireside Circle, Alpha X, Anchored Men, SG Dads and The Man Club.

Link to the BT piece https://www.businesstimes.com.sg/lifestyle/health-wellness/why-singapore-men-are-joining-new-mentoo-movement

To join the MenToo movement, visit amicuscuriaepcs.com/mentoo



Nicholas Gabriel Danny Loong

Photo Credits: Tan Siew Huey

09/06/2026

🚨 FATHERS OF TEENAGE SONS (13 & ABOVE)! 🚨

One day, your son will stop asking you to spend time with him.

Before that day comes, take this opportunity to create a meaningful experience together, one that could strengthen your relationship for years to come.

This Father's Day, don't just celebrate fatherhood. Strengthen it.

As sons grow older, conversations can become shorter, schedules become busier, and opportunities to truly connect become fewer.

Join us for a special Father-Son LEGO®️ Serious Play®️ experience where you and your son will come together to explore communication, shared values, and the relationship you want to build for the years ahead.

Through a series of engaging hands-on activities and guided conversations, each father-son pair will discover new ways to connect, understand one another, and create meaningful conversations that often don't happen in everyday life.

Your son is growing up faster than you think.

Don't wait for the "right time" to build the relationship you want.

⚠️ Limited spaces available.

Register today:
https://nas.com/mentoo/events/legosplayfd

07/06/2026

This is what it looks like when men show up for each other.

Real pain. Real stories. Real questions.

Real support. Real solidarity. Real partnerships.

On Saturday, MenToo launched, and men's groups across Singapore signed the MenToo Charter together.

Today The Straits Times published this: "Abused husbands in S’pore who are unseen" ; this we know first hand. That is why on Saturday, MenToo needed to become real.

To every group, every man, and everyone who showed up: thank you. To Eric Chua, thank you for being here. The charter is signed. Now the real work begins.

And if you, or someone you care about, is carrying something heavy, Amicus is here to help.

Get support:

1. Join one Men’s Group within the MenToo community that supports men who are going through similar challenges with you here https://nas.com/mentoo/digital-files/mentoo-mens-groups

2. Join the MenToo Online Community using the NAS App, and within which, book yourself a 30-min free consult, so that you can get someone to professionally guide your actions forward.

Join here - https://nas.com/mentoo/events/mentoocmm
Access code MENTOOGO27
(Lifetime Premium Membership available until end 2027)

3. Write to this email if you have any questions or clarifications [email protected]

We are here for you.

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Nicholas Gabriel Danny Loong Eric Chua Bros Before Woes

06/06/2026

Today, MenToo launched.

This morning at Timbre+ One North, men's groups from across Singapore came together to sign the MenToo Charter, a shared commitment to men's mental health and wellbeing.

This is the start of showing up for one another.

More to come.

Join the community here https://nas.com/mentoo/events/mentoocmm
Access code MENTOOGO27
(Lifetime Premium Membership available until end 2027)



Photo Credit: Konain Saif

Eric Chua Nicholas Gabriel Danny Loong Bros Before Woes Faridah Ali Chang

05/06/2026

Tomorrow.

Men's groups from across Singapore come together to launch MenToo and sign the MenToo Charter, a shared commitment to stand for men's wellbeing.

Making history at Timbre+ One North.
Join us from 10am-12pm
Register at https://nas.com/mentoo/events/mentoocmm

MenToo is a movement, founded by psycholegal and coaching company Amicus, joining forces with the men's group Bros Before Woes. The aim is to grow as a community for men to openly explore the issues and challenges men face today, in the areas of mental health and overall well-being. MenToo will work...

04/06/2026

Why MenToo? 3 reasons.

1. Men experience distinct biological, psychological, and social realities.
2. These realities are too often under-researched, misunderstood, or oversimplified.
3. Supporting men well strengthens families, children, and society as a whole.

MenToo exists to change that, together. 6 June, Timbre+ One North.
Come join us from 10am-12pm

Register at https://nas.com/mentoo/events/mentoocmm

28/05/2026

This 6 June, we launch MenToo.

MenToo is a research-informed movement and think-tank dedicated to the mental health, relational wellbeing, and life outcomes of men, as individuals, husbands, fathers, and members of their communities.

We started MenToo for a simple reason. Men's realities are too often under-researched, misunderstood, or oversimplified, and support that genuinely reaches men strengthens families, children, and society as a whole.

Founded by Amicus and launched together with the men's community group Bros Before Woes , MenToo brings men's groups across Singapore into one shared effort: to be a steady, united voice for men, and to make it easier for men to seek help and support one another.

The launch also marks new research collaborations with Murdoch University on men's issues, so that what we advocate is grounded in evidence, not assumption.

We are honoured to welcome Mr Eric Chua, Senior Parliamentary Secretary for Law and for Social and Family Development, as our Guest of Honour.

This is more than a conversation. It is the beginning of a community. Join us on 6 June at Timbre+ One North.

Register here: https://nas.com/mentoo/events/mentoocmm

23/05/2026

Divorce may change many things.

But your child still needs their father.

They still need:
❤️ your reassurance,
❤️ your consistency,
❤️ your wisdom,
❤️ your time,
❤️ your love.

Do not underestimate the lifelong impact of remaining emotionally present.

🟢 Even when the process is painful.
🟢 Even when co-parenting is difficult.
🟢 Even when rebuilding feels exhausting.

Stay..
💪🏼 Steady,
💪🏼 Involved, and constantly,
💪🏼 Growing.

Your children are watching how you navigate adversity.

And one of the greatest gifts you can give them is this:

🎉 A father who stayed. 🎊