26/02/2022
Noone supports me! Tips on how to overcome it.
You've started working on something, started new job, hobby, found a partner, want to move, etc.
And you share your news with your friends/family..
They say:
- I don't think it's a good idea
- It's a bad decision you are making
- I care about you, that's why I'm against it
- I know better, don't make mistake
- It won't happen
- You can't do it
What else have you heard from your loved ones? Share in comments.
It's normal that you'd feel sad, angry, abandoned. And probably you'd start even doubting if your choice is the right one.
So, here is what you can do to keep yourself motivated.
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1. First of all, just try to understand the reason why they act this way. Most likely they really care about you and don't want you to feel sad.
This understanding will help you calm down your nerves and be more reasonable.
2. Think, why whatever they say bothers you. Probably there is something about your decision you are not sure about? Analize everything thoroughly. Make sure it is YOUR desicion and it's something you really want.
3. Learn how you can support yourself. Celebrate small steps achieved. It will give you more confidence.
4. Find someone who will support you. Groups on social media, events, forums, chats etc. Believe me there are people with the same ideas out there and they will be happy to share there experience with you and boost your confidence.
5. Don't share anything with non-supporters, unless you achieved something really big and meaningful. Only then they will understand what you've been working for.
6. There is one person that can definitely support you, will never judge and will be on your side no matter what - your coach. Try session to get a partner and grow your potential.
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