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What I did yesterday…For someone who’s in the “business” of leadership and people development, palagi talaga akong itchi...
30/08/2026

What I did yesterday…

For someone who’s in the “business” of leadership and people development, palagi talaga akong itching to engage with faith-based communities—kasi I myself am part of one, and I always see opportunities to strengthen how we form our leaders.

Very common sa simbahan: people are appointed because of tenure, age, or katayuan sa buhay; people are willing to serve but aren’t necessarily equipped to lead; and sometimes, we assume na enough na ang good heart without intentionally developing the right mindset, heartset, and skillset.

Madalas, dito rin nanggagaling ang burnout. We ask people to lead, serve, and carry responsibilities, pero hindi natin nabibigyan ng enough environment, exposure, and equipping for them to actually grow into the leader we’re asking them to be.

I know, I know… hindi naman nagpapabaya ang Diyos. Siya ang nagpupuno sa mga kakulangan natin.

Pero grace does not remove our responsibility to grow.

If God has entrusted us with people and communities, we also have the responsibility to become better stewards of that trust.

So when this opportunity to serve through speaking and light training for members and leaders of different church communities in our vicariate came, aba, YES tayo diyan.

Not saying one talk will magically change everything. But if these conversations can create awareness and open people to the question, “Ano nga ba ang itsura ng isang mabuting leader?” and actually try to pursue to become one, then that’s already a meaningful start.

To pursue to be:

A leader who is MATALINO—thinks wisely.
MABUTI—leads with character.
MAHUSAY—leads with competence.

Ang leadership kasi, hindi porke inassign ka or napili ka, yun na yun.

As a leader, you also have to choose to continuously be formed, equipped, and entrusted.

Grateful for the opportunity to serve our Church communities through leadership and people development. Ikot pa uli sa aming bikarya next weekend! ☺️

• Diocesan Shrine & Parish of San Isidro Labrador ✅
• San Vicente Ferrer Parish ✅
• Santo Niño Parish
• Our Mother of Perpetual Help Parish
• San Lorenzo Ruiz Parish
• St. Nicholas de Tolentine Parish

Small conversations. Small beginnings. Hopefully, better leaders for the Church. 🙏🏽

All is grace! All glory to God! 🌱

21/08/2026

Your leadership cannot outgrow your character. 🌱

MAHAL MO BA TALAGA?Gusto ko sana to talk about marriage today, but I’m not married, so… I don’t think I’m qualified. Hah...
14/08/2026

MAHAL MO BA TALAGA?

Gusto ko sana to talk about marriage today, but I’m not married, so… I don’t think I’m qualified. Hahaha! 😂

But the Gospel today (Matthew 19:3-12) got me thinking about something I do know: life, in general.

I think love, in whatever form, begins with attraction.

You’re attracted to a person. A community. A mission. A hobby. A career. A calling.

At first, you’re excited about what you receive from it. Yung kilig, mga ngiti, “butterflies.” 🙂

But as we mature, I think there must come a point when we ask:

“What can I give?”

Exactly what Pope Benedict XVI said:

“Love begins with attraction but must mature into self-giving.”

That’s actually how my journey in service started.

I was attracted to music. I loved singing. I loved being involved. I loved what music gave me.

But eventually, music became a way for me to give.

I’m still learning to make that shift—from “I like this because it gives me something” to “I’m here because I have something to give.”

I experienced the same thing when I joined a business community with the philosophy “Givers Gain.”

And I’ve seen how powerful that principle is.

The more you mature, the less everything becomes about “What’s in it for me?”

You start asking:

“How can I help?”
“How can I contribute?”
“How can I make this better for someone else?”

This is also why the Gospel’s teaching on marriage is so beautiful.

Jesus talks about leaving father and mother, cleaving to your spouse, and becoming one.

You leave—not necessarily abandoning your parents or friends, but recognizing that your spouse now becomes your primary human relationship. You build a new family together.

You cleave—you hold fast. You choose each other, especially when it’s no longer convenient or exciting.

And you become one.

Not just physically, but in the way you build a life together—your decisions, finances, plans, priorities, faith, hopes, and dreams for your family.

Sabi ni Jeff Cavins sa reflection niya today, yan daw ang marriage “diagnostic test.”

For those who are married, check n’yo na. ☺️

You’re still two different people.

But you’re no longer living as two separate lives.

I’ve seen this in the family ministry I serve with.

I’ve seen what happens when couples continue to mature from attraction into self-giving.

I’ve also seen what happens when people remain too focused on themselves—my needs, my wants, my happiness, my space.

Maybe that’s why this Gospel speaks to me even if I’m not married.

I ponder on the question even more: Mahal mo ba talaga? ☺️

Ganun ngani… this isn’t just about marriage.

It’s about maturity in love.

Attraction asks:

“What do I receive?”

Maturity asks:

“What can I give?”

And love eventually asks:

“What can we build together?”

Kasi hindi naman relationship ang pagiging efficient lang—getting things done, solving problems, moving forward.

There’s something beautiful about doing meaningful things together.

Building a life together.

Growing together.

And most importantly, doing it with Jesus at the center.

Maybe that’s the journey:

From receiving…

to giving… everything you’ve got. Even your life.

Mature. Give. Put people first. And build something bigger than yourself.

Happy Friday! ❤️🌱

LEANING INThe past few years, I have been spending my time with leaders younger than me.Intentionally.I’ve been handing ...
29/07/2026

LEANING IN

The past few years, I have been spending my time with leaders younger than me.

Intentionally.

I’ve been handing over responsibilities, inviting them into bigger conversations, trying to get them seat at the table, and sometimes even letting them lead me in ways I never expected.

I don’t just give them tasks. I try to walk with them through the process.

Most of the time I catch myself thinking, “Ready na kaya sila? Baka mapano sila.” But I still lean in.

I’ve learned that people rarely discover what they’re capable of until someone trusts them with something they don’t yet feel ready for.

Doon mo rin naman makikita if you’re doing well as a leader, if you’re giving them 3 E’s: exposure, environment, and equipping. 🌱

Why I lean in so intentionally?

Growing up, I was often told, “Bata ka pa.” Bata pa for bigger responsibilities. Bata pa to make wise decisions. Bata pa to lead. Bata pa to be trusted with something significant.

Looking back, I’m grateful for the people who saw beyond my age and entrusted me with opportunities anyway. They didn’t wait for me to become “old enough.” They helped me become ready.

Today, I simply hope to pay that forward.

Duen and Gab have been two of those leaders.

I got to know both of them when they were still college students. Now, they’re both professionals, creating impact and adding value to people in their own spaces. Watching that journey has been one of the most rewarding parts of leadership for me.

And yes… they already know my hidden agenda. 😅

My goal was never just to help them become better volunteers, employees, or leaders. It has always been to help them become the kind of people who can lead others long after they no longer need me.

Walking alongside younger leaders has taught me a few things.

1. Leadership isn’t about being the smartest person in the room.

It’s about creating rooms where other people discover they have something valuable to contribute.

2. People don’t grow because you protect them from responsibility.

They grow because you trust them with it, and stay close enough to coach them through the mistakes.

3. Every generation leads differently.

There were moments they challenged my assumptions, introduced better ways of doing things, and reminded me that wisdom doesn’t have a monopoly on age. Maraming matututunan sa mas bata.

4. Leadership is caught before it is taught.

The conversations after the meetings, the coffee runs, the debriefs after mistakes, and simply doing life together have shaped them far more than any formal lesson ever could.

5. Trust is one of the greatest gifts you can give a leader.

Sometimes people don’t need another training. They need someone who believes in them before they fully believe in themselves.

6. Mentoring isn’t about creating copies of yourself.

It’s about helping people become the leaders God designed them to be, even if they lead differently than you would.

7. The win isn’t when they help you succeed.

The real win is when they no longer need you to succeed.

And maybe that’s the biggest lesson.

I’m now in my 30s. Maybe I’m still young to say this, but my personal leadership goal is this:

TO BE LESS NEEDED.

Maglaho sa picture.

Malito ang tao kung sino ang leader in our communities because everyone’s giftedness is being expressed well, loving people in the different ways they are called.

I don’t want to wait for us all to get older before we start leading alongside each other.

Leadership has no age.

We can do that now.

As leaders get older, our job slowly shifts.

Less proving.
More preparing.

Less being needed.
More making ourselves unnecessary.

That’s the kind of leadership I want to practice.

Not about building followers.

But raising leaders who will someday lead even better than I did.

That’s what “leaning in” really means to me.

Not leaning into the spotlight.

But leaning into people… until one day, they no longer need you to lead the way.

If that happens, then I know I’ve done my job.

Crazy for GOOD leadership,
Gabs 🌱

29/07/2026

True leadership isn’t about holding onto control, it’s about opening doors for the next generation.

As Gabs Fidel highlighted, to raise leNextGenLeadersve, we must meet them where they are, understand their world, and intentionally equip them to step up faster.

Growth happens when experienced leaders actively invest in young talent.

How are you empowering the next generation in your organization? 💬

2 Sundays ago, I had the privilege of sharing “Connected: Becoming Fruitful Servants” with this amazing group of young c...
28/07/2026

2 Sundays ago, I had the privilege of sharing “Connected: Becoming Fruitful Servants” with this amazing group of young church servants. 🌱

They’re definitely younger than my usual audience, and I have to admit I really felt the energy gap. 😂 They kept me on my toes, and by the end of the session, pagod na pagod ako. Tita mode on. Hahaha!

But I loved every minute of it. ❤️

I was also fascinated by how engaged they were. They were genuinely interested in the topic, eager to answer questions, share their thoughts, and participate. It even made me wonder kung bakit hindi ako ka-receptive sa mga ganitong usapan noong kaedad ko sila. Hahaha!

One thing that also encouraged me was seeing leaders who are younger than me intentionally initiating and organizing formation programs like this for the people they lead. I love their passion not just to keep ministries running, but to keep people growing. That kind of intentional leadership gives me so much hope for the Church, especially as a Millennial Ate who finds herself somewhere between the more seasoned church workers and those who are just starting to lead.

One thing I’ve learned over the years is this: a speaker can prepare the content, but it’s the participants who create the atmosphere for learning. And they certainly did.

Thank you for your openness, your energy, and your willingness to grow. Thank you as well to the leaders who continue to intentionally invest in the people entrusted to them. May we never stop building disciples, not just volunteers.

Praying that all of us will continue to stay connected to the True Vine and bear fruit that lasts. 🌱🙏🏽

25/07/2026

Lessons on Leadership from a Rainy Day

It's raining cats and dogs as I write this.

Kapag umuulan, I become a little more reflective.

Today, it made me think about leadership.

Storms.

Not just weather storms.

The storms of missed targets. Difficult conversations. Conflict within the team. Uncertainty. Unexpected changes. Moments when you don't know what to do next.

Ito na-observe ko over the years:

Storms don't build leaders. They reveal them.

At may iba't ibang types ng leaders tuwing may "bagyo".

When the rain starts pouring, people respond differently.

1. Leaders who freeze.
They become so overwhelmed that they stop leading. They wait for more information. They wait for someone else to decide. Or wait for the storm to pass before they move again, leaving the team wondering what will happen next.

2. Leaders who panic.
They react before they think. Their fear becomes everyone else's fear. Instead of bringing calm to the situation, they add more noise to it.

3. Leaders who save themselves.
These are the leaders who disappear when things get difficult. They protect their reputation, shift the blame, or make sure they're okay first. Sadly, the people who needed them most feel abandoned.

4. Leaders who become part of the storm.
They complain. They point fingers. They overreact. They make emotional decisions. The storm may have been unavoidable, but their response makes it much harder for everyone else.

5. Leaders who become an umbrella.

These are my favorite kinds of leaders.

They don't stop the rain.

They can't.

But they create enough cover for people to keep moving.

They stay calm without pretending everything is okay. They protect the team. They listen before they speak. They communicate honestly. They make the next wise decision. They give people hope without giving false promises.

Their team may still get wet.

But at least they don't have to face the storm alone.

That's the kind of leader I want to become.

Kasi leadership naman isn't about making sure it never rains.

It's about being someone others can count on when it does.

Keep safe, leaders. Blessed weekend! 🌱

23/07/2026

Your spirit shuts down when you're too far from purpose, people, or path.

Stop forcing what was never meant for you. 🌱

NGANIIIII!I had the opportunity to give a short talk on “Bridging the Gen Z Leadership Gap” with the Maxwell Leadership ...
22/07/2026

NGANIIIII!

I had the opportunity to give a short talk on “Bridging the Gen Z Leadership Gap” with the Maxwell Leadership Philippine Tribe during our Tribe Connect event last Saturday. 🙂

I started by testing the crowd with some Filipino Gen Z slang.

“IYKYK.”
“Delulu.”
“Soft launch.”
“Hard launch.”
“Ngani.”

The room was filled with laughter. 😂

I think their favorites were “soft launch” and “hard launch”. Kasi noong na-gets nila, sabay-sabay silang napa-“Aaaaaaahhh!” 🤣

Mine?

Ngani. Syempre… nganiiiiii! 😅

Behind the laughs, tho, was a serious point.

Because the audience was composed mostly of the more seasoned generation, I told them:

“If we can’t understand their language, there’s a good chance we also don’t understand their world.”

Seems simple.

But think about it.

If we don’t understand their world, how can we understand their struggles?

If we don’t understand their struggles, how can we earn their trust?

And if we don’t earn their trust, how can we expect them to follow our leadership?

Moving ahead with the talk, I shared something that Mark Cole, CEO of Maxwell Leadership, has been teaching us all along:

Listen → Learn → Love → Lead

When it comes to Gen Z, we can’t just walk into their lives and immediately start leading them.

Leadership isn’t something we demand.

It’s something we earn.

First, we listen—not just to respond, but to genuinely hear their stories, experiences, and perspectives.

Then we learn. When we truly listen, we begin to understand their world instead of making assumptions about it.

Then we love. And the more we understand people, the easier it becomes to have compassion, extend grace, and genuinely care for them.

Only then do we have the credibility to lead.

I ended the talk by singing “Next In Line” together with the Tribe members.

Most of us hear that song during graduation—from the perspective of the younger generation, believing they are the next in line.

But this time, I asked everyone to sing it from a different perspective.

What if we are the next in line?

The generation that will soon pass the baton.

The generation responsible for developing more leaders.

The generation that decides whether the next generation rises… or struggles alone.

One part of the song hit me differently that day:

“We gotta work, we gotta feel… Let’s open our eyes and do whatever it takes…”

If we truly believe the next generation matters, then let’s do whatever it takes to understand them, develop them, and believe in them.

Leadership, just like our friend John C. Maxwell always say, isn’t just about building followers.

It’s about building the leaders who will come after us.

If you’re a Gen Z leader looking for a community that believes in your potential, wants to invest in your growth, and will challenge you to become the leader God created you to be, just reach out.

I’d be happy to connect you with our group and share what we do. 🙂

For us, leadership development is one of the greatest ways we can transform our country—

one leader at a time. 🌱🇵🇭💜

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