03/04/2026
You Were Created for Love —So Why Are You Living in Judgment?
Why Are You So Hard on Yourself and Others?
We always hear this saying and advice,
LIVE LIFE WITH KINDNESS AND A COMPASSIONATE HEART.
Many of us know this concept,
but we don’t know how to exercise it.
Because we don’t fully understand it,
nor do we have a clear picture of what it truly looks like.
In my many years of my Entrepreneurial Self Mastery Coaching experience,
this is my simple understanding of what it means:
BEING KIND is treating people well and fairly—even when you don’t gain anything in return.
You CARE for others regardless of their status, ability, or physical appearance, even if they seem “lower” than you.
Care is an action word of Love.
BEING COMPASSIONATE is seeing people as they truly are—
Like a child filled with the essence of Love, Joy, Vulnerability, and Openness.
However, our essence may have been polluted, manipulated, or wounded by trauma,
which is why we sometimes act in ways that are opposite to our true values.
Being Compassionate is choosing to empathize with how deeply we may be hurting,
Especially when our behavior reflects the opposite of how God created us to be.
This is how Jesus treats us—
and in the same way,
we are called to treat others and even ourselves with COMPASSION and KINDNESS.
Did you know that most of the time…
what we give to others negatively is often something we have already given to ourselves—many times over?
If we speak harshly to others,
chances are we are also speaking harshly to ourselves, often unconsciously.
If we are not kind and compassionate to others…
we are hating and hurting ourselves.
And that’s why, knowing this,
we need to be more kind and compassionate to others who did wrong to us.
Why?
Sino ba ang unang na-hate at na-hurt nila?
Sino ba ang nahihirapan?
Di ba the one who holds the grudge comes from anger?
Kaya send Kindness and Compassionate rather reacting with hate.
Remember:
We are created in the image and likeness of God.
We are spirit beings living in earthly bodies.
And that spirit within us is filled with love—
not anger, not doubt, and not fear.
