01/11/2026
Just love this from Dauphin Horsemanship whom I had the opportunity to watch at Equifest recently.
Saying those words out loud or to yourself as you release kind of adds something too! It helps us see the moment and release. Clicker training works on the same premise where the click marks the moment.
I'll put my hand up that I can be too greedy and catch myself asking for a bit more with my own horse when I should have said "that's it, good boy"! I think the danger especially comes as we advance the training on our own horse and we think "they know this, or they should know this" and we get greedy or maybe we get needy and we stop seeing the try or the resignation that develops.
This is where eyes on the ground can be so helpful in prompting or reminding us when we cant see see the wood for the trees and needed to release, give them (or us) a moment.
Those eyes on the ground can be very helpful to see where we may be inadvertently clinging or leaning or hanging due to an imbalance in our position and by doing so we aren't giving the horse clear signals nor releases.
I'm a little bit jealous of my South Island Friends who got to attend clinics or lessons with Daniel Dauphin. Will be keeping my eyes wide open for opportunities in the North Island next time!
"See? That's all I wanted."
This phrase is magical for training a horse. I strongly suggest you adopt it. When introducing a new skill, or working on one with some wrinkles to iron out, you need to know what your end goal is and be looking only for a glimmer of that ultimate goal. A couple of better steps is likely the best case scenario.
If you can find that glimmer ASAP and release on it like your hands and legs and seat are spring loaded, then you will have successfully communicated to your horse, "See? That's all I wanted."
This keeps them engaged and motivated. Getting greedy and pushing things too far is the recipe for a resentful horse that wants to quit. Let them be assured that a little effort pays off. Let them see that you're just asking for a little progress and it will be rewarded when given. They tend to enjoy the work if you are asking their bodies to move in better ways. Just be willing to take smaller bites.