19/08/2025
WHY QUALITY MATTERS MORE THAN QUANTITY
Consciously working with my breathing has taught me a lot. One of the most important lessons I have learned along the way is that quality matters much more than quantity.
At the start of my journey I was extremely ambitious. I would do every practice with maximal effort. I would measure my progress by counting my breaths. I would stuff my practices with lots of different techniques. I hated the idea of missing one single day of practice. I thought that this was the mindset needed to move into the direction of my goals. I was completely focused on the quantitative aspect of practice.
Later I came to realize this ambition was not necessarily driven by a healthy desire for growth - it was fueled by a fear of being left behind. I always used to feel like I was trying to catch up. I had a conviction that once I would control my breathing to the most subtle detail, I would be able to relax and enjoy life.
Over time my perspective shifted and I started to understand the importance of the qualitative aspects of practice. I realized that being so heavily focused on quantity was actually blocking the quality of my breathing. I put so much pressure on myself which made my body tense, my breathing restricted and my nervous system on edge.
Nowadays, the way I measure my progress is much more qualitative. Instead of focusing so much on many different practices or counting every single breath, I focus more on the quality of my breathing.
Do I breathe with more ease?
Is my nervous system able to settle?
Do I feel more peace and calmness during and after the practice?
And the irony...
.. focusing on the quality of breathing actually takes care of the quantitative aspect as well. I believe this is a much more sustainable way of practicing.
I am currently conducting research into the challenges, frustrations, fears and desires people have with regards to their breathing. I am looking to speak to people who are dealing with restricted and unconscious breathing habits related to stress, anxiety or trauma and who want to use breathing methods to learn to regulate their nervous system, increase their emotional resilience and strengthen their spiritual alignment.
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