11/10/2020
This week's Aiki-Theme is about winning the right way. Aikido is possibly misunderstood as an art which, due to its non-competitive nature, does not prepare a person for competition in life which may be considered by the public, therefore, as not having a practical application to life's challenges. In fact the 'win' in Aikido is very important although the target of the 'win' may not always be evident because the person we are winning over is ourselves, or, moreover, our egos and not the person we are practicing with. The practice of Aikido allows us to differentiate between listening to one's inner instinct and listening to one's ego. It might sound obvious to tell the difference but, in fact, without really training ourselves, the distinction is not so clear and we could think we are listening to our instinct or gut feeling when in fact it is the ego that is talking. A person who makes a regular practice of any art or discipline will notice how their practice allows this inner clarity. One story I remember reading recently was about the Spanish runnner, Ivan Fernandez Anaya, who competed in a cross country race in 2012 against Kenyan runner, Abel Mutai. The Kenyan runner was clearly winning the race and, at just 10 meters before the finish line, Mutai stopped running because he was thinking he had already crossed the line, unaware there were still 10 meters to go. Running in second place was Fernandez Anaya and, rather than running past Mutai to exploit Mutai's lack of understanding that he had not yet finished, the Spanish runner instead shouted to Mutai to continue. Mutai was confused as he did not understand Spanish and so, as Fernandez caught up with Mutai, he ended up pushing his competitor to the finish line, allowing Mutai still to win the race.
In fact, there were two winners in that race as Fernandez had achieved what can be considered by Aikidoists as Agatsu Masagatsu, the expression used in Aikido to express overwinning your ego. Of course, the decision was also a wise one from the Spanish runner as he was able to pre-conceive the bad publicity he would get had he overtaken the Kenyan runner.
In the same way, we practice humility in Aikido not to kill our egos or remove our zest for living competitively but in order to get clarity about what is the wise thing to do in any given situation in life and, that way, we can always win at life in the right way.