13/05/2024
Prophetess Scholastica, I wanted to ignore the report I received in my DM about your sarcastic response to a brother who summoned all the courage in the world to engage you in a conversation. If we decide to unleash our sarcastic prowess as men, you will relocate to planet Bulaba. But we won't touch that power yet.
Now, my brother was intentional enough to practice some of the time-tested strategies I shared with him on this platform by asking you a simple question: What was the day like for you? And all you could say was one word: churchy. Haba Prophetess Scholastica! Is your hand paining you? Are you having a high fever?
You cannot continue chasing men away from your DM with your hard-to-get and rude disposition. Even if you are not interested in a guy, allow that conversation to flow until you find a point where you can politely say you are not interested in a relationship with him. You don't have to make jest of him or damage his self-esteem for your message to be passed across.
Stressing a brother who wants to have a conversation with you for whatever reason does not reflect your self-worth. Thereโs nothing classy about repulsive behaviour you can't find even in a bend-down select, aka okrika market.
The interesting thing about guys is that they also have circles where your matter is discussed. I hope that when you eventually find the guy that ticks your boxes, heโll not find himself in the company of the guys you have looked down upon. It takes only a few words from that circle to scatter that thing you're hoping to build with your โMr Rightโ.
You don't have to be rude to prove that you are the prettiest lady since rice and beans, and you know your self-worth. You can say no to a guy without coming across as being rude.
You are a Queen, and you should act and talk like one. We shouldn't confuse your behaviour with that of a runs girl who is looking for a Yahoo boy to come to her rescue.
Now go back to that chat and engage that brother like someone who has the fear of God.
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