13/04/2025
If you are married to a yoruba man, and you don't understand yoruba, even if he speaks it for one hour, you would only be starring at him.
The length of time he speaks it won't automatically cause you to understand it, except you decide to pay attention and actually learn the language.
Language is what connects people. Language gives room for tolerance and even enhances privilege. We experience this when we go to the market. The moment your language person speaks the language, price go come down ๐
But there is the language we ignore the most, and it places us in the most emotional dangers.
The love language!
According to an American writer, Gary Chapman, there are 5 languages of love.
Everyone of us have a language of love that we either speak or understand.
Where two people are speaking the love language that their partner doesn't understand, there is a threat to that relationship. There is an underlying lack of trust, tolerance and emotional security.
And in my most recent book, I dived deep into all of these.
You can afford to marry someone whose native language you don't understand and still cope, but you cannot survive if they don't speak or understand your love language.
Love languages are the patterned ways our brains process love.
Some people feel loved when you buy them gifts, others prefer that you spend your whole day cuddling with them. If you continue buying gifts for someone whose love language is spending quality time, those your gifts will soon become a trigger for their anger, and you will be left telling the whole world that your partner is ungrateful.
This is the mystery of love languages, one of the master KEYS to UNLOCK your partner!
These and more are detailed in this book; 'Psychological SECRETS TO UNLOCK YOUR PARTNER'.
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