14/09/2022
AFTER S*X, YOU WILL PAY BILLS!
Can I advice those who intend to get married soon?
Marriage is one of the institution that is so dangerous to rush into. In a jiffy, your excitement can turn into a burdened countenance.
Why? Because you did not set things in their proper places.
This post is for believers especially, because we are the ones who love to marry by faith and disregard all kinds of reality because you know how to pray and quote scriptures.
You want to get married because you don't want to commit fornication with your lady....it's one of the reasons Paul gave in the Bible but it is not enough.
AFTER S*X, YOU WILL PAY BILLS!
You need to plan for bills. Times have changed and times are changing. You cannot follow the style of your aged Pastor who married without an apartment or a job and the wife didn't have a business too. Then they had farmers who gave them food. The house rent then too was more or less like it's free. School fees was free. Transportation was cheap. Times have changed!
As you plan wedding, please plan bills. Faith is good but faith without work is death. Faith without planning is foolishness. After s*x, your wife will need good cloths, you will pay anti-natal bills and buy baby things and baby food and school fees and house rents and nepa bills and so many fees and bills.......Times have changed!!!!!!
Some of the sorrows we go through after marriage is because of lack of planning....it is not part of our divine syllabus at all!!!!
If you are going into full time ministry as a man, then don't marry the lady as a student just because you don't want to commit fornication. It is not honourable for you as the husband if her father is still taking care of all her academical needs right under your roof!
A little patience....just a little patience, everything will be fixed. You don't need all the money in the world but you need a source of income....very important!
Let the lady get a job or do business or learn a skill....but to marry empty is not spiritual sense o!
Wedding is cheap....yes, very cheap. It's marriage that's expensive.
Somebody can buy the cow for your wedding, another person will send the gown from U.K, the good women choir.... especially when you are useful for the Lord, they will buy the bags of rice and ingredients. The men of valour will pay for the hall. Your friends will give you an envelope, your suit money will be sorted out. The choir in your church will form the band at your reception.
One Baker you once prayed for and God gave her buisness explosion will sow the wedding cake. The single sisters will do the decorations.....abeg, tell me, na wetin remain for wedding again?
But after that show 👆, you will face your bills....plan for the bills not just the wedding.
Love is strained when there is lack, no matter how small, let there be a source of income....that's wisdom😇🌻💞🌟🕊🌻💞🙏🕊🌻