18/06/2026
You watch what others are charging,
check what they're posting,
notice who's getting clients and how they show up.
And somewhere in all of that,
you decide what's acceptable for you.
If you are ‘as good’ as they are.
If you can reach that level.
This comparison was installed in childhood,
when you were trusting others
to tell you what's safe, what's allowed,
what a person like you can reasonably reach for.
You adjusted your dreams
based on the adults around you 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜
for someone like you
And now it's running your pricing decisions,
your visibility choices,
and the YOU you're willing to let people see.
The 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘯 is the old system checking
whether it's still safe
to want what you actually want.
But your inner knowing already has the 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫.
You are meant to have it all.
And you can.