13/04/2026
You don’t keep repeating the same relationship because something is wrong with you.
You keep repeating it because you’re waiting to be chosen.
When you don’t feel whole on your own, you enter relationships trying to get something.
Validation
Security
Reassurance
And from that place… you stop choosing.
You start hoping.
But when you know you are already whole and complete, everything shifts.
You become the one who chooses.
You stop settling for what hurts.
You stop abandoning yourself to keep the connection.
This is the work, my love.
Follow me for more on breaking the cycle and becoming the one who chooses.
xo,
Tal