15/12/2022
This was an ‘ah-ha’ moment I had with my psychologist this week. (I shared more of the story in the email I send out).
All this time, I’d been thinking I was being compassionate to myself, that I had given myself “too much” grace.
When actually, what I’d been doing was shaming myself into trying to change. However, all that shame did was shut me down and cause me to freeze, resulting in me doing nowhere near the amount I wanted (and feeling very bad about myself at the same time 😅).
Have you been shaming yourself?*
*one way you’ll know if this is you is if… you’ve wanted to do something for a long time but haven’t been able to start, because you’ve shut yourself down by the way you’re internally speaking to yourself.
Being compassionate to yourself (encouraging yourself), what’s ONE base level step you could take to start making change?