12/07/2022
“Wear your work.” It’s a saying I first heard a few years ago from , a great friend and one of the truest of blues, and means more to me now than ever before.
I feel like inspirational quotes or sayings like this happen like that. You know they probably mean something profound, but the words don’t *really* sink in until later - when you’ve had a little more life under your belt or are in a stronger position to reflect back to truly grasp what they mean.
I also believe that sometimes the meanings can also evolve with you and start to mean different things at different points in your life too.
For me, “wearing my work” means no longer needing to explain myself to others. It means knowing wholeheartedly that what others think of me is truly none of my business so long as I know my actions are coming from a good place. It’s being able to put in work on myself, emotionally or physically, and letting that effort shine through without needing to justify it, introduce it, or caveat it. It’s the freedom that comes with internalizing the idea of - making decisions and going about my life knowing that my motives are in the best place possible, even if, ESPECIALLY if, I know it won’t please everyone.
I’ve come a long way since first hearing those words and I’ve got a long way still to go. But, I am so grateful I have sayings like this from inspirational people like her that have stuck with me. And maybe, if you’re reading this, they’re already resonating with you.
I never want to be finished exploring or learning new things. I always will strive to wear my work and never again try to convince someone or something of my worth. I will continue to live as my true authentic self and trust that the people, things, and opportunities meant to be will gravitate towards me naturally.
What does wearing your work mean to you? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
In your corner and at your six.
- Lauren 💪🏻 🔥 ✨