11/07/2026
Guru and Sishya: The Sacred Bond Then and Now
(Penned By Vazhuvoor Guru Saravanan)
A Modern Dilemma
A boy known to me was deeply inclined to learn the Veena. After consistent prayers, he found his Guru in Besant Nagar near Adyar, Chennai. Both considered themselves lucky—the Guru found a devoted disciple, and the sishya a knowledgeable teacher.
However, despite the boy's sincerity and perfect attendance, he soon experienced disheartening neglect. His Guru frequently took long breaks for personal commitments, leaving the student in tears.
On one occasion, the boy confirmed his class by phone a day before and again an hour in advance, only to travel to the teacher's house and be turned away at the door by the Guru’s husband, who stated she was suffering from a headache and resting.
The young boy was shattered—not by the tiring public commute, but by the callous treatment and lack of concern. Today, this mutual loss of respect and devotion between teacher and student has become all too common.
Teacher vs. Guru
A ‘Teacher’ imparts instructions to prepare students for a successful worldly life. A ‘Guru’, however, kindles a yearning for the ultimate truth and guides the deserving disciple toward spiritual liberation. Today when it has become scarce to find a devoted Teacher, a worshipful Guru is nowhere to be found.
The significance of this relationship is beautifully captured in Sage Vyasa's Guru Stotram:
akhaṇḍamaṇḍalākāraṁ vyāptaṁ yena carācaram।
tatpadaṁ darśitaṁ yena tasmai śrīgurave namaḥ॥
“Salutations are to that Guru who showed me the abode of the one who is to be known, whose form is the entire universe, and by whom all the movable and immovable are pervaded.”
And again:
Gururādiranādiśca Guruḥ paramadaivatam |
gurōḥ parataraṃ nāsti tasmai śrīguravē namaḥ ‖
“Salutations are to that Guru who is the beginning and the beginningless, who is the highest Deity and to whom there is none superior.”
While the disciple is devoted to the Guru, a true Guru is equally bound by the sacred tradition. In fact, true masters often yearn for devoted disciples just as much as sishyas seek them.
It is said that Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa cried profusely, praying to the Divine Mother to bring his disciples to him. Once Narendranath Dutta (later Swami Vivekananda) arrived, Ramakrishna could never bear to be separated from him.
The Golden Standard: Natyacharya Vazhuvoor Sri B. Ramaiah Pillai
An inspiring contrast to modern indifference is the story of Natyacharya Vazhuvoor Sri B. Ramaiah Pillai. His disciples, Vijaya (Rajan) and Hemalatha (Sharma), were entrusted to him after their previous Guru, Kattumannarkoil Sri Muthukumara Pillai, grew too old to teach.
Vijaya’s mother recalls Pillai's dedication: "He started coming home to teach. He said, 'since they have learnt under Muthukumara Pillai, the adavu-s are neat. We can conduct their arangetram in six months.' And he did what he claimed."
Remembering his teaching style, the disciples noted:
• Patience & Strictness: He never scolded or lost his temper, but he was strict and never allowed their attention to wander.
• Dedication: He would sometimes arrive as late as 8:30 PM, and though the girls were sleepy, his teaching remained stellar.
• Broadmindedness: He recognized the foundation laid by their previous Guru and adapted his instruction accordingly. He was never overly critical, focusing on artistic growth instead.
Lessons Through Magic
Anandhi (Kalki) and Radha, two other devoted disciples, also shared fond memories of their Guru Sri Ramaiah Pillai who had an intuitive understanding of children.
One day at Kalki Gardens in Kilpauk, Madras, the Master gathered the local children. Placing two tiny dolls on a blue dhurree at dusk, he said, "Watch the magic." As he sang rhythmically, the dolls danced and jumped up and down. Sitting three feet away, the children were amazed, completely unaware that he was manipulating the dolls with a black string. "Even now, when I think of it, I laugh," Anandhi recalls.
This deep, intuitive, and magical connection between a worshipful Guru and a devoted Sishya is the very essence of learning classical arts.
