Dr Abhishek Pasari

14/06/2026

Many Fathers Were Never Parented Emotionally… Yet We Expect Them to Know Fatherhood Naturally.

An Indian father is expected to be strong.
But nobody asks who taught him how to be emotionally present.

Most fathers today grew up in homes where:
• Love was rarely expressed
• Conversations were instructions
• Emotions were weakness
• Affection was awkward
• And silence was called maturity

They were taught how to earn, not how to emotionally connect.
So now, many fathers deeply love their children, but struggle to show it.
⚡ They pay fees on time
⚡ Fix problems immediately
⚡ Sacrifice endlessly
⚡ Carry pressure silently

And their child still says: “Dad doesn’t understand me.”
Not because the father doesn’t care, he was hardly there!
But because somewhere, generations of men were trained to suppress softness in the name of masculinity.

Indian society told fathers:
👉 “Don’t cry.”
👉 “Don’t overexpress.”
👉 “Children should fear you.”

And here are the consequences of the long held tradition:
📌 Homes where fathers are physically present, but emotionally unavailable.
📌 Children who respect their fathers, but cannot emotionally open up to them.
📌 And fathers themselves silently carrying stress, loneliness, guilt, and emotional exhaustion without language to express it.

The truth is —
Fatherhood is not instinctive for many men, because emotional parenting was never modeled to them.

If you believe fathers deserve emotional healing too, raise your voices and be heard on our PODCAST.

This Father's Day mark a new beginning.

11/06/2026

People Said, "I Was Becoming Too Available After Becoming a Father".

In India, we celebrate fathers who provide but we rarely prepare fathers to emotionally participate.

A man can work 14 hours a day for his family and still never truly know his child.
And this is treated normal in our society!

When my twin sons were born, I was expected to be a spectator, this was something disturbing to me...

Everywhere around me, fatherhood was treated like a side role.

The mother was expected to understand the baby,
The grandmother was expected to guide the mother, and the father?

“बस कमाओ और कम आओ" | "Earn and don't be available"

As if emotional distance is a badge of masculinity.

I refused that script, and I made sure that dad matters.
⚡ I attended doctor visits.
⚡ I learned about child psychology.
⚡ I stayed awake during emotional breakdowns.
⚡ I listened instead of lecturing.
⚡ I became present — not just bring presents.

And slowly, I realised something powerful:

Children do not remember who paid the electricity bill on time.

They remember who made them feel emotionally safe.

One day, someone jokingly told me:
“You behave more like a mother.”
I smiled.

Because maybe that’s the problem with our society.
⚡ We think nurturing is feminine.
⚡ We think emotional intelligence weakens masculinity.
⚡ We think fathers must be feared more than felt.

And then years later, we wonder why grown men struggle to express emotions, build relationships, or connect with their own children.

The Indian parenting system does not just need better mothers.

It desperately needs emotionally available fathers.

A father’s presence is not just financial.
⚡ It is psychological.
⚡ Neurological.
⚡ Emotional.
⚡ Generational.

And the day Indian fathers stop seeing parenting as “helping the mother” and start seeing it as their own sacred responsibility —
that day, an entire generation of children will heal differently.

I did not become a “soft man” after becoming a father.
I became a conscious one.

And honestly?
That changed everything.

Let’s normalize fathers who connect, communicate, nurture, and heal.
Not just provide.

This Father's Day, let's celebrate the real voices of dad.
Participate in our podcast and change the narrative of fatherhood.

17/05/2026

India has 436 million children, but less than 1% parents have access to a trained Parenting Coach.

That gap is your career.

📌 WHY DO WE NEED PARENTING COACH?

1. Nuclear Families are on the Rise and India's share of nuclear families rose from 56% in 2016 to 58.2% by 2021. It has crossed 50% in urban India by 2024. With no grandparents at home, no joint family safety net — parents are raising children alone and they are searching for guidance.

2. Dual Income Families has doubled the pressure on both parents to find a balance between . Both parents working means less time, more guilt, more confusion. Working parents in nuclear families juggle increased stress and childcare costs, while emotional support during crises is in shorter supply.

3. Mental Health Crisis is officially recognised and school-based estimates indicate 23.3% prevalence of child and adolescent psychiatric disorders in India. The system cannot cope.

4. Policy makers are signalling the need and has initiated the need for a Parenting Calendar in the schools, aligned with the vision of

🎯 HOW PARENTING COACH DEMAND SHALL INCREASE?

1. School Workshops & PTM Sessions
2. One-on-One Parent Counseling
3. Corporate Parent Wellness Programs
4. Community Learning Circles
5. Content Building for EdTech and HealthTech Organisations

One certification. Five income streams.

MyShishu is certifying the next generation of Parenting Coaches.
Are you ready to be one?

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Tell us who you are in the comments —
🧒 Parent? Drop your child's age.
👨‍⚕️ Doctor · Educator · Coach? Drop what you do.
Let's see who's silently reading this.

13/05/2026

“She went through FIVE miscarriages…”

And still chose to believe in motherhood again. 💔

In one of the rawest episodes from the Global Mother’s Day Podcast Festival with Abhishek Pasari, Parull Kakad - Founder, MumbaiMummy opened up about:

⚡ postpartum depression nobody saw
⚡ emotional breakdowns during pregnancy
⚡ how motherhood completely changed her identity
⚡ spiritual healing & therapy
⚡ raising 4 children while trying not to lose herself

But what shocked us most?

Her honesty.
No filters.
No fake “perfect mom” image.
No social media motherhood fantasy.

Just truth.

At one point, the conversation explored how children don’t just grow under parents…
they also heal, trigger and transform the parents themselves.

And honestly…
if you think motherhood is only cute photos, school lunches and birthday parties…
this episode may completely change your perspective.

Emotional. Deep. Healing. Uncomfortably real. 🌸

🎥 Full podcast now on YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/live/5gKgqCly6WY

This is not a “perfect motherhood” conversation.This is real.Raw.Honest.Unfiltered.If you are a mother who has ever felt:• “Why is this happening to me?”• “A...

13/05/2026

13/05/2026

I have one obsession.

Making sure every child enters the world with someone having already prepared it for them.

For 19 years I have worked with families at exactly the moment where love is present — but clarity is missing.

That gap is what I focus on closing.

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