13/09/2024
Relationship
Relationship between two person is always complicated thing. When it is cordial and in harmony, it gives great strength to do the work which is impossible alone. but when it is not in harmony it takes all your energy and makes you miserable. and it creates depression, stress, anxiety, frustration etc.
one has to understand fundamental of relationship. so it has many aspects, sexual, physical,, emotional, mental and spiritual. now with someone we are emotionally connected but mentally person is different. physically we get attracted to someone but sexually person has different standard. you are attracted to someone physically but that person might have very low level of awareness. so these all the dynamics makes it very complicated. our prime mistake is that we want all this complement from a single person. and thats why most of relationship becomes bitter after sometime. both the person doesnt remain complementary to eachbother and even they stay togather most of energy goes in adjustment and suppression. They loose all the growth.
there are people who give up relationship very easily and move from one partner to other. and there are people who sticks to one person and suffer. both the approach is wrong. than what to do. how to understand.
The key is, first build a relation with self. if you start observing yourself and start building relationship with yourself. you start observing how selfish, lazy, miserable, irritating you are. most of time you will not like your own company too. and this is the reason most of people have difficulty to do the meditation or living with their self.
understand if you dont like yourself, how someone else like you. so accept, understand and improve yourself for healthy relationship.
Let go your selfishness, don't blame of judge. Learn to adjust with other persons need. And most importantly create love in your heart.
When there is love in your heart. People feel some invisible magnetism in you. And your love brings all the harmony which brings strong foundation.
wish you best self exploration.
Yogesh Acharya