Sheila Hoctor Interview, Life and Business coach

29/05/2022

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Sheila

19/12/2021

26/06/2021

New Episode Available!
Listen everywhere or follow the link here 👉www.thehutnearthebog.com/season-two

12/06/2021

I had the pleasure of sitting down with Joy Connolly and having a most amazing conversation with her, about her journey as a spiritual medium. Her sincerity, her authenticity and her commitment to her work is palpable. Tune in on Tuesday next and enjoy the listen.

09/01/2021

Oh what a beautiful morning.

04/01/2021

My new found freedom.

Sunrise this morning at the hut near the bog. I have found peace and tranquility in the midst of nature, when one could become consumed with fear and worry in the present circumstances.

03/01/2021

The great outdoors. What a beautiful day.

31/12/2020

Goodbye to the year 2020,
A year that started with so much hope and promise.
But soon this promise and hope began to fade,
The Corona Virus Pandemic had arrived.
Now the onus was on each of us to stay safe,
And to keep each other safe.

2020 was a defining year,
Many hearts were broken,
Fear and uncertainty were the order of the day.
Many cancellations and closures.
Social isolation took on a new meaning.
Life as we knew it had changed dramatically.
Yet, in the midst of this devastation,
So many people inspired us with their courageous
And selfless acts.
They gave the worst affected hope and faith in humanity.

23/12/2020

Lovely to get to reach out to the Irish Diaspora through our Christmas memory podcast.

Share your Christmas memories and stories through photos and videos to tell the story of what it means to be Irish at Christmas, bringing your traditions to people around the world and in Ireland.

22/11/2020

I think this is a lovely read to remind us that we can feel down and out at different times in our life, but we need to express that feeling rather than depress it. Those who express are less likely to depress.

Pooh woke up that morning, and, for reasons that he didn't entirely understand, couldn't stop the tears from coming. He sat there in bed, his little body shaking, and he cried, and cried, and cried.

Amidst his sobs, the phone rang.

It was Piglet.

"Oh Piglet," said Pooh, between sobs, in response to his friend's gentle enquiry as to how he was doing. "I just feel so Sad. So, so, Sad, almost like I might not ever be happy again. And I know that I shouldn't be feeling like this. I know there are so many people who have it worse off than me, and so I really have no right to be crying, with my lovely house, and my lovely garden, and the lovely woods all around me. But oh, Piglet: I am just SO Sad."

Piglet was silent for a while, as Pooh's ragged sobbing filled the space between them. Then, as the sobs turned to gasps, he said, kindly: "You know, it isn't a competition."

"What isn't a competition?" asked a confused sounding Pooh.

"Sadness. Fear. Grief," said Piglet. "It's a mistake we often make, all of us. To think that, because there are people who are worse off than us, that that somehow invalidates how we are feeling. But that simply isn't true. You have as much right to feel unhappy as the next person; and, Pooh - and this is the really important bit - you also have just as much right to get the help that you need."

"Help? What help?" asked Pooh. "I don't need help, Piglet.

"Do I?"

Pooh and Piglet talked for a long time, and Piglet suggested to Pooh some people that he might be able to call to talk to, because when you are feeling Sad, one of the most important things is not to let all of the Sad become trapped inside you, but instead to make sure that you have someone who can help you, who can talk through with you how the Sad is making you feeling, and some of the things that might be able to be done to support you with that.

What's more, Piglet reminded Pooh that this support is there for absolutely everyone, that there isn't a minimum level of Sad that you have to be feeling before you qualify to speak to someone.

Finally, Piglet asked Pooh to open his window and look up at the sky, and Pooh did so.

"You see that sky?" Piglet asked his friend. "Do you see the blues and the golds and that big fluffy cloud that looks like a sheep eating a carrot?"

Pooh looked, and he could indeed see the blues and the golds and the big fluffy cloud that looked like a sheep eating a carrot.

"You and I," continued Piglet, "we are both under that same sky. And so, whenever the Sad comes, I want you to look up at that sky, and know that, however far apart we might be physically...we are also, at the same time, together. Perhaps, more together than we have ever been before."

"Do you think this will ever end?" asked Pooh in a small voice.

"This too shall pass," confirmed Piglet. "And I promise you, one day, you and I shall once again sit together, close enough to touch, sharing a little smackerel of something...under that blue gold sky."

We all need a piglet in our lives.