03/09/2026
CONSENT MEANS RESPECTING ANOTHER PERSONS “NO”.
When we hear the word consent, we tend to think about sexual consent. But consent goes way deeper than that. Consent means that others have a right to say no to you without you trying to manipulate their mind.
No means no! You do not have the right to get your way simply because you want something. You do not have the right to force, pressure, manipulate or control another person into doing what makes your life more comfortable.
Every person has the right to think for themselves, make their own choices, disagree with you, go their own way, and do life their own way.
If you need to manipulate, intimidate, pressure or relentlessly push someone until they surrender and do what you want, or what you say, or what you think, that isn’t consent. Those are tactics of control. The tactics of a bully. An abuser.
Respecting another person’s NO is the most basic principle of consent.
Sometimes we don’t get what we want. Sometimes people disagree with us. Sometimes they choose a path we would never choose. That is life. You don’t have to like it. But you definitely have to accept it.
You are not entitled to another person’s compliance simply because their choice inconveniences, disappoints, annoys, or hurts you. Respect their NO. Respect their autonomy. People have a right to critically think.
Step away from anyone who tries to confuse your thinking.
Mentally well people evaluate themselves. Mentally unwell people evaluate others. 💜