26/07/2020
What makes you happy?
Happiness is an attitude, it happens inside-out and not outside-in.
There is no magical formula rather it is understanding what you have inside and be grateful for it. Status, wealth, power will not guarantee happiness meaning that often it is the simple things that make us truly happy. Homemade coffee in your special glass, meeting a friend for lunch, a hug from a loved one, being back training after being locked away after a pandemic.
Happiness comes from you not to you. Therefore you make your own happiness. George Gissing wrote : "I have the happiness of the passing moment, and what more can a mortal ask?" Indeed the importance of being consistently present in the journey to your ultimate goals and aspirations is fundamental to the enjoyment of that journey. This is a core element of the mindfulness popularity. Enjoy each moment but be present and mentally aware of every small thing that makes you happy.
Approximately 40,000 people were once asked what your main goal in life is? Over 38,000 listed that "happiness" was one of their goals. The next question was "Can you define happiness?" Research then found out that only 1% had sat down and worked out what happiness meant for them.
I did this with my wife? She named happiness as one of her main goals. I asked what this looked like each day and she said if she was given time to read alone in peace and quiet for 1 hour every day. Now we have "Mummy Time" in my house. It is quantified and scheduled into the day.
My Happiness is to help others be happier through my work. I coach athletes and help them develop their mental strengths so they are confident. I introduce a culture of aspirations and self belief in teams with positive structure language and watch team relationships evolve.
My personal happiness goal consists of being the best dad and husband by being in the moment, hugging my family and creating smiles.
Happiness is an attitude it happens inside-out and not outside-in.
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