25/02/2018
My name is Freda and I’m 23 years old. I come from a humble background and I have only one brother, who is 6 years older than me.
My brother and I are very close, because we are only two children, from one mother and father. He has always been protective of me and would go to any length to make me comfortable. Growing up, I would always go to him to seek advice concerning any aspect of my life, including my relationship choices. He approved of me getting a boyfriend at the age 25 and made sure I broke up with the guy when he started misbehaving, to prevent me from getting terribly hurt.
My brother got married two years ago and asked me to come and live in his marital home, when his wife got pregnant and I have been with them ever since.
Jess, something strange happened one evening, while I was giving him a goodnight hug; his hands lingered on my backside and I didn’t do anything to stop him. Before I could process anything, we were kissing and fondling in the kitchen. We ended up having s*x after that and we can’t seem to stop.
My problem is that I think I might be in love with my brother and I can’t tell whether he feels something for me too, or it’s just his usual way of making sure that I’m satisfied in every aspect of my life, this time s*xual. He even offered to secretly father my child, if I don’t find a responsible man to settle down with. And to tell you the truth, I have been looking for my brother in the men that I meet and I fear that with this, I will never find a man to call my own.
I know that this is terribly wrong, but honestly, I’m enjoying it. Please help me. What should I do? I’m so ashamed.help me in advising her as an assembly man Duayaw Nkwanta Newtown