28/09/2022
BUY SHARES IN YOURSELF
When you buy some designer gear, or a brand new car on finance, or another gadget you don't need, you think it's gonna feel a void, make you happier and give you something you didn't have before.
Eventually the novelty will wear off. It always does, as humans our brains are designed to get used to things.
Yes you get a few comments and likes on your socials, a temporary boost to your mood. But then that subsides and you need to look for your next hit. Your material possessions will never be enough.
When you spend money investing in yourself, no one gets to see that to begin with. Your mind thinks it's a waste of money, you're getting nothing to show off to anyone. Where's the dopamine hit?!
In time you will start to realise the value for money you are getting from your gym membership, your coach, PT or tutor. You're getting happier, fitter, energetic, healthier. Your self confidence is hitting new heights and you have a fresh zest for life.
At this point, EVERYONE NOTICES. When someone senses a more positive you, and they tell you personally, that compliment hits harder than any like on social media ever will.
Some might not tell you when they notice. They could be threatened or annoyed that this improved you is going places. Some might even make comments to get you back in your box. Your real friends will show you though.
Think carefully about what you invest your money in. It matters.
It's not a waste to spend it on getting help, or expert advice, or learning new skills. It's exactly what you should be spending money on. Personal growth, not stagnation. Looking to improve, not getting the green eyes looking at everyone else's amazing lives (another mirage).
I'd rather own nothing and be the happiest I've ever been, than own a load of flashy stuff but feel empty and restless all the time. Choose wisely.