16/06/2026
Iâve never made a Pride post before.
Partly because I wasnât sure if I should.
Partly because, for a long time, I wasnât comfortable enough with who I was.
So this year, I am.
I still see people asking:
âWhy do you need a Pride month?â
âWhy isnât there a straight Pride?â
And the answer, for me, is simple.
Because there was a time in my life when I was terrified that people would find out I was gay.
I remember changing parts of myself so that nobody would question it.
Watching what I said.
Watching how I acted.
Trying to fit into a version of myself that felt safer and more acceptable.
I remember genuinely thinking that life would be easier if I just wasnât gay.
Not because there was anything wrong with me, but because I thought Iâd disappoint fewer people. I thought Iâd make life easier for everyone else if I could just be someone different.
Iâve never spent a single day wondering whether it was okay to be straight.
I did spend years wondering whether it was okay to be me.
Itâs also why I care so deeply about creating environments where people feel safe.
Whether youâre stepping into a gym for the first time, worried about your body, your confidence, your identity, or simply whether youâll be accepted, you deserve to feel like you belong.
In many ways, Iâm trying to be the coach that my 16, 17 and 18-year-old self desperately needed.
Someone who wouldâve reminded me that I didnât have to change who I was to deserve respect, support or a place in the room.
Iâm proud of the life Iâm building.
Iâm proud of the people around me.
And for the first time in a long time, Iâm proud to be exactly who I am.
Happy Pride. đłď¸âđ