25/08/2026
One of the things yoga can teach us is how to respond more intelligently to what is actually happening in our body and mind.
In class, options are always offered. If your body is asking for more, there is space to take the next step - to stay a little longer, explore a stronger variation, or gradually build strength, mobility, balance and confidence.
But the practice also invites us to become curious about where that desire for “more” is coming from. Is the body genuinely ready, or have we noticed somebody else doing something and immediately felt that we should be able to do it too? Is there a quiet thought underneath it saying, “I’m not good enough here” or “I ought to be further along than this”?
Most of us have thoughts like these. Yoga gives us a place to notice them and, instead of automatically believing everything that appears in the mind, begin to create a little space around them.
We might notice the part of us that wants to push harder, go deeper or prove something, even when the body is quietly asking us to stop. Sometimes the thing encouraging us onwards is not wisdom at all, but comparison, expectation, habit or self-criticism - that persistent feeling that somehow we should be more than we are.
A mindful and gentle yoga practice can help us begin to recognise the difference.
People who come to class regularly absolutely do become stronger and more mobile. They notice changes in their balance, flexibility and in what their bodies are capable of. But some of the most interesting changes are much harder to measure.
We begin to notice our thoughts and recognise tension sooner. We may sleep a little better or feel calmer. We become more aware of when it is right to challenge ourselves and when it is wiser to rest. And perhaps most importantly, we begin to develop a kinder relationship with the body that has carried us through our entire life.
This is where yoga begins to move beyond what happens on the mat.
One of yoga’s great principles is Ahimsa (non-harming) - which is often understood as kindness and compassion towards all living beings. But surely that has to include ourselves.
Can we move our body without punishing it, challenge ourselves without criticising ourselves, and rest without feeling guilty? Can we look at ourselves without immediately searching for something that needs improving?
Could you stand in front of a mirror, look into your own eyes, take a slow breath and say, “I love you”?
For many of us, that may be far harder than any yoga posture.
But perhaps yoga can help us begin moving towards that place - not towards becoming a better version of ourselves, but towards meeting the person who is already here with a little more awareness, kindness and love.
This is where we start to live yoga.
If this resonates with you, you are welcome to join us here at Breathe Yoga and Wellness - in Torquay or Collaton St Mary.
For more info and to book, please see www.bythesea.yoga