01/06/2026
The reason you're struggling to lose body fat has nothing to do with motivation...
The biggest mistake I see busy professionals over 40 make...
It's not eating too much because most just don't eat nutrition at all
It's not missing the odd workout.
And it's definitely not a lack of motivation.
It's believing they need to be more disciplined.
After years of coaching busy over 40s, managers and professionals, I've found that most people don't have a discipline problem.
They have a structure problem.
A client of mine was in this very situation where work was always the excuse, although she knew she wanted the results. Instead of creating a structure in her diary she allowed everyone and everything else to dictate her life.
This meant not getting in the exercise, eating when time allowed, being dehydrated because time didn't allow for water, constantly tired, gaining body fat and not getting the results she knew she wanted.
When time did allow it was always starting again and making it up on the spot.
Her words were:
"I know what I should be doing, I just can't seem to stick to it."
When we looked closer, the issue wasn't knowledge.
She knew how to lose body fat.
She knew she should exercise.
She knew she should eat more protein and stop the convenience foods
Se knew she had to say NO more often
The real problem was that every week looked different.
Early starts.
Late meetings, drawn into meetings
Family commitments.
Unexpected work issues - working late because "this has to get done"
Her health plan only worked when life was perfect, but life is never perfect.
So instead of asking her to become more disciplined, we built a system around her reality...
Shorter workouts.
Simple nutrition habits.
A plan for busy days.
A plan for weekends.
A plan for when work got chaotic.
But it was a plan that was only going to work if she allowed it to - its not a plan if you don't do at least 80% of it.
Within a few weeks her energy improved.
Her consistency improved.
Her waistline started moving in the right direction.
Not because she suddenly became more motivated.
Because health finally became achievable.
This is where many people get caught up.
They keep trying to force themselves into a plan that doesn't fit their life.
Then blame themselves or their environment when it falls apart.
The truth to getting results is adapting your strategy
The best fitness plan is not the perfect one.
It's the one you can still follow when life gets busy.
Because structure beats motivation every single time.
What's the biggest thing that gets in the way of your health goals: lack of time, lack of energy, or lack of structure?