09/06/2026
As another school year comes to an end, social media will be filled with leavers photos, signed shirts, attendance awards, GCSE results, achievement awards, sports days, certificates, school trips, prom pictures, and proud parents celebrating all the milestones. Those moments absolutely deserve celebrating!
But let’s all hold space for some other children…
♥️ The ones who attended school despite crippling anxiety every single morning.
❤️ The child who spent most of the year on a reduced timetable but kept showing up and trying anyway.
♥️The child who wasn’t invited to the birthday parties, sleepovers, group chats, or meet-ups everyone else seemed to be part of.
❤️ The child who masked all day, only to come home completely exhausted and overwhelmed.
❤️ The child flourishing in home education after finally being given the chance to learn in a way that works for them.
♥️The child who couldn’t access school at all because their needs remained unmet.
❤️ The child still waiting for an assessment, diagnosis, provision, therapy, or support.
❤️ The child whose education was delayed by unlawful decisions, missed provision, and a system that failed them.
♥️The child who sat exams whilst battling overwhelming anxiety, sensory overload, pain, fatigue, or poor mental health.
❤️ The child who was unable to sit exams at all.
❤️ The child who was excluded for behaviours that were really communication, distress, trauma, or unmet need.
♥️The child who spent yet another year caught in appeals, complaints, annual reviews, meetings, mediation, and tribunals just to access the support they should have had in the first place.
❤️ The child who was banned from prom because they were dysregulated, overwhelmed, or misunderstood.
❤️ The child who feels forgotten because their achievements don’t fit neatly into attendance percentages, certificates, awards, or school photographs.
❤️ The child who received no education at all this year whilst adults argued over who was responsible
♥️The child who simply survived this year.
And to the parents and carers…
•The ones who sat in cars outside schools
•The ones that cannot work
•The ones who attended countless meetings.
•The ones who fought for assessments, tribunals, support, provision, placements, transport, therapies, and understanding.
You are the ones that carry their fear, distress and exhaustion. You are also the ones who question yourself every single day too. I see you too. ❤️
Sometimes the biggest achievement isn’t 100% attendance or top marks is it? It isn’t always a certificate, an award, or a photograph on social media either! Sometimes the biggest achievement is making it through another year! And for many children, that took far more courage than most people will ever realise x