23/05/2022
The first time: is meditation suitable for everyone?
Meditation today interests not only adepts of mindfulness in all areas of life, including sports, but also serious scientists. While we opt for palo santo, singing bowls and a playlist for maximum immersion, the scientific world is adding to the evidence base. Meditation improves memory and concentration, helps relieve stress and anxiety and even develops empathy. Before the first class we had a talk with the trainer of World Class RedSide Vladimir Duvanov about the importance of meditative practices today, how to estimate the result and whether it is worth to start the training if for some reason you think that only Buddhist monks can achieve the inner harmony.
Many people have fears before the first exercise. I think I might not be able to take my mind off my current problems and obsessive thoughts.
It is important to understand that we are in a stressful situation due to a pandemic and events that are beyond our control. And what would be of greater value at this moment? Isn't the ability to cope with your emotions and feelings, the ability to keep your head cool? After all, what is a cool head? It is a very sober, very judicious mind, which allows you to highlight the really important things. To achieve this state, in fact, is the goal of meditation - this is what we offer our clients at the club. We teach to practice meditation so that a person in any situation can preserve the most valuable thing - sound mind, lucid mind and the ability to think critically, to self-analyse, to analyse what is going on around them. By healthy spirit in the well-known proverb I would mean "a healthy mind". As we see now, not every healthy body has it. And if we have a healthy mind, we will also have a fit body. But if the mind is sick, even the best body will eventually deteriorate.
There is a very strong influence on the emotional state now - people are literally being "swayed" by their emotions. And in an unbalanced state, people are more likely to do things that they would not do if they were calm. Meditation allows one to first recognise, "discover" one's state and then work with it. The practice requires neither special training nor expensive equipment. It does not belong to any one religion or tradition, it is completely non-denominational.
There are a lot of criticisms of meditation, but they are rather new trends that have nothing to do with it. In defense of this, the scientific discipline of psychology has derived a great deal of its techniques for dealing with the human psychosocial state from meditative practices. Everything that has to do with visualization and work with the imagination are techniques that are familiar to us. These tools are taught by specialists, they are actively used and have obvious benefits.
But what if I am afraid that I alone cannot achieve a meditative state in a group class, that these tools will not work?
If I am not mistaken, Confucius said that one cannot find a black cat in a dark room. When we don't know what we are looking for, it is very difficult for us to understand it. At meditation club I often ask people about their feelings. A very simple example: you perform a certain technique and "get" a certain state. Afterwards I ask: "And if you had to make a vital decision now, would you regret it later, in the future?" Almost 99% say no. Now imagine that you need to make a very important decision when you are emotionally disturbed, when your mind is very restless, when something is going on with your body - how likely is a mistake? This allows me as a coach to deliver value and shift the attention of the person who is in doubt.
"Do I need this, since I'm not walking around in weird clothes?" - is another frequent question from doubters. All outward attributes are just outward attributes. It is not without reason that serious corporations have resorted to meditation for the past 15 years. It helps relieve tensions within the team and the employees themselves, and hence improves performance. But of course, there is no coercion on our part. Come and see what you get out of it. I usually ask to stay for one session until the end so that the person has a truly fulfilling experience.
Could it be that meditation just isn't right for me?
Any skill is formed over time. Let's say we want to learn how to ride a bike. We see someone riding beautifully. And we don't know how, but we really want to. It is unlikely to happen all at once. We might even fall down in the beginning. And if we haven't stopped trying to learn, now in any country in the world, on any bike, we ride and enjoy it. This is a skill we have developed in ourselves. It is exactly the same with meditation. It is strange to expect instant results, it doesn't work that way! It takes time and, of course, effort on your part. Doubt in general is inherent in human nature. Especially about subtle and ephemeral things that are difficult to measure or feel with your hands. Let's say I lift dumbbells - my biceps grow, and here you and I are sitting and nothing seems to happen. And here it is very important to compare your condition at the beginning and at the end, to fix it. We will see where we have come in these 30-40 minutes. Even if you don't feel instant progress - that's OK, that's normal. We don't do a class for advanced yogis with 10 years of practice experience. This class is for all levels, so you can be completely relaxed.
Did you come to meditation through yoga?
Yes, I am a yoga teacher. This is my profession, hobby and my main job. For me everything happened in an organic way. Meditation is the pinnacle of yoga, the "cherry on the cake". But it took a lot of work to get there. Meditation is a very valuable step in yoga practice and it is taken very seriously. I had to be an apprentice for a while, as any of us would be in any business. It is a path that one overcomes who goes through it. If things don't work out, we choose another path. The goal? To come to a harmonious state within ourselves. You can choose any way - running, swimming, tennis. There's meditation in them too, but when it's a complete meditation, it's a finished product. You have to be a very advanced runner to get it in running.
And is it possible, when you do yoga, do you see that a person would do well to learn how to meditate?
It's very individual. You have to be guided by what you feel. If you're comfortable with your usual state, if you think that you're in control, it's not likely that you would seek a class on your own. But if you want to change something in your condition, it is important to perform new actions. It is said that it is foolish to expect new results by continuing with old actions. So it is here - we take a new tool and give ourselves time to learn, to implement, to benefit. The doctor gives us a prescription: take a pill three times a day for a month. We will not get the desired effect if we take all the pills in one day, no matter how tempting it may sound in theory. We will only hurt ourselves. It's the same with meditation. When we practice under the guidance of a coach who knows what he is doing by default, he consistently leads us to the result.
Is it possible to "overdo" meditation? When to stop in time?
If we are thirsty and find beautiful fresh water, how much can we drink? Maybe half a litre, maybe a little more. Then we physically can't do it. And even the tastiest food will make us feel satiated. Self-regulation is often triggered in the physical plane. And our goal is to develop awareness so that the person really understands what the result is. Of course there are certain guidelines that you can follow to get a certain result. But again meditation is a very "flexible" practice: in any case we get something that can be just our experience. And it is up to the practitioner to take responsibility for this. To begin with, I would recommend our weekly classes on Vkontakte and YouTube channels. They are saved and can be revisited at any convenient time.
Is digital detox important during the practice?
During the meditation practice itself we sit with our eyes closed, we spontaneously undergo a digital detox. Basically, we only use our ears. The meditations we resort to are what we call "guided meditations". This is one of the simplest and most accessible methods, where the coach uses his or her voice as a tool to guide the student. The highest form of meditation is when there is no sounds or music, one is in complete silence and silence and comes to the right place. During our classes we use music and speech, and I do not see any contradiction in this regard. Of course, if you get distracted and stare at your smartphone all the time, you won't get any meditation. It will be a strange pastime and that's all.
Can I go for a workout after meditation, and are there any rules about eating before and after?
To use medical terms, meditation is a parasympathetic technique. That is, one that calms you down. And if you go to Bodycombat after meditation, it's not quite the right story. We have just reached a harmonious state, and all of a sudden we start having some strong physical.