09/07/2026
BORROWING CONFIDENCE
This week I had someone holding a weight they weren’t actually lifting.
Just...
Lift it off.
Stand there.
Put it back.
That was the drill.
Sounds a bit pointless when you say it out loud.
But it wasn’t really about strength.
It was about getting rid of the surprise.
Sometimes something only feels heavy because you’ve never been near it before.
Once you’ve picked it up...
Felt it.
Stood with it.
Put it back.
It doesn’t feel quite as unknown next time.
It got me thinking...
I reckon confidence works a bit like that.
People think confidence arrives before you do something.
I don’t think it does.
I think sometimes you just borrow a tiny bit of it.
Enough to get close.
Then next time you borrow a bit more.
Before you know it...
The thing that felt massive a month ago just feels...
Normal.