18/09/2026
Maybe you don’t need more motivation.
Maybe your life is just really bloody demanding.
I talk a lot about consistency, making yourself a priority and finding time to look after yourself.
But lately? I’ve been reminded just how hard that can actually be.
I’m parenting again in my 40s. I’m running a business. There’s a puppy who apparently requires approximately 97% of my attention 😂 and some days my time just doesn’t feel like my own.
There have been plenty of times recently when the workout hasn’t happened. The long walk hasn’t happened. Dinner hasn’t looked how I’d planned.
And I’ve caught myself thinking I should be doing better.
But maybe the answer isn’t trying harder to create the “perfect” week.
Maybe it’s getting better at looking after ourselves in the imperfect ones.
A 20-minute workout instead of an hour.
A quick protein-packed dinner instead of the meal you planned.
A short walk when you can’t manage 10,000 steps.
Doing something instead of deciding you’ve failed and promising yourself you’ll start again on Monday.
Because if your plan only works when life is calm, organised and predictable... it’s probably not a very useful plan.
And honestly, I’m not sure life is ever going to magically become calm enough for us to finally put ourselves first.
So I’m learning to work with the life I’ve got.
And that’s what I want to help other women do too.
Lose weight. Get stronger. Feel fitter and more capable. Feel like YOU again.
Without needing your whole life to revolve around it. ❤️
If you’ve been waiting for life to calm down before you start looking after yourself again, this is your reminder that you don’t have to. DM ‘NDA Club’ for more info.