The Youth Coach

The Youth Coach Youth Coach & SEND Advocate - Supporting young people and parents through confidence, emotional wellbeing, EHCP and SEND processes.

Offering coaching, parent support, advocacy and guidance in East Sussex and Online

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✨ Building an Emotional Vocabulary, One Feeling at a Time ✨Over the last few weeks, one of the young people I work with ...
10/06/2026

✨ Building an Emotional Vocabulary, One Feeling at a Time ✨

Over the last few weeks, one of the young people I work with has been creating this wonderful emotions board.

Together, we’ve explored different feelings, talked about what they mean, when they might show up, and what they can feel like in our bodies and minds. We’ve discussed emotions such as happiness, sadness, anger, calmness, pride, anxiety, excitement, curiosity, frustration, disappointment and many more.

The aim isn’t to “fix” feelings or make difficult emotions disappear. It’s about helping young people recognise, understand and communicate how they’re feeling in a safe and meaningful way.

This board is now going home, where a simple star can be moved to the emotion that best reflects how they’re feeling that day. It’s a gentle way for family members to understand what might be going on without needing lots of words.

Sometimes saying “I’m sad,” “I’m anxious,” or even “I need some space” can feel difficult. Having a visual tool like this can make those conversations much easier.

Emotional awareness is a skill that lasts a lifetime, and it’s always a privilege to watch a young person grow in confidence as they learn to understand themselves a little better.

🧡 Every emotion is welcome.
🧡 Every feeling has a purpose.
🧡 Understanding feelings helps us understand ourselves.

What if the goal isn’t to stop negative thoughts but to speak to ourselves more fairly?This week a young person shared s...
04/06/2026

What if the goal isn’t to stop negative thoughts but to speak to ourselves more fairly?

This week a young person shared some of the things they say to themselves:

“I’m dumb.”
“I look terrible.”
“My voice is annoying.”

We talked about something important:

Just because a thought pops into our head doesn’t mean it’s the whole truth.

Being fair to ourselves doesn’t mean pretending everything is perfect or ignoring difficult feelings. It means responding to ourselves with the same kindness, understanding and balance we would offer a friend.

Instead of:
🖤 “I’m dumb.”

What if we asked:
🧡“Would I say that to someone I care about?”

Instead of:
🖤 “I always get things wrong.”

What if we tried:
🧡“I’m still learning, and everyone makes mistakes.”

Our feelings are valid.

Our struggles are real.

But we can learn to be fairer with the stories we tell ourselves.

Progression, not perfection.

The way we speak to ourselves matters.

✨ What is one thing you could say to yourself today that is a little fairer and a little kinder?

20/05/2026

Special Educational Provisions EHCP

Sometimes families come to me feeling completely overwhelmed by the EHCP and EHCNA process 💛Over the past few months, I’...
20/05/2026

Sometimes families come to me feeling completely overwhelmed by the EHCP and EHCNA process 💛

Over the past few months, I’ve been supporting a youngh girl and her family through an EHCNA appeal, helping them organise evidence, prepare responses, understand the process, and most importantly, feel heard and supported throughout it all.

Appeals can feel exhausting, emotional and confusing for parents, especially when you’re already trying to support a child who is struggling. Having someone alongside you to help break things down, talk things through, and advocate with you can make such a difference.

No family should feel like they have to navigate it all alone.

ADHD AssessementsAs you all know I am extremely passionate about supporting children and young people with ADHD. I am lu...
12/05/2026

ADHD Assessements

As you all know I am extremely passionate about supporting children and young people with ADHD. I am lucky that I have the pleasure to work alongside an amazing Psychologist Dr Claire Stubbs at With You In Mind in Eastbourne.

Claire offers Private ADHD Assessments for children aged 5 to 17 year olds. Having seen these assessments first hand and the great report and recommendations that come with it I can highly recommend.

⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

Today is Children’s Mental Health Awareness Day Not every struggle is visible.Some young people walk into school carryin...
07/05/2026

Today is Children’s Mental Health Awareness Day

Not every struggle is visible.

Some young people walk into school carrying anxiety, overwhelm, low self-esteem, friendship worries, pressure, fear of failure or simply the feeling that they are “not enough” whilst still smiling on the outside.

As adults, we don’t always need to have the perfect answers.

Sometimes the most powerful thing we can offer a child or young person is:
✨ a safe space
✨ someone who listens without judgement
✨ reassurance that their feelings matter
✨ support to help them understand

At The Youth Coach, I’m passionate about helping young people build confidence, resilience and emotional awareness so they can navigate life feeling stronger, calmer and more understood.

Every child deserves to feel heard.

Every young person deserves support.

And mental health conversations should never be something we shy away from.

Sometimes talking feels like too much… and that’s okayI’ve had a few young people reach out recently who don’t feel comf...
20/04/2026

Sometimes talking feels like too much… and that’s okay

I’ve had a few young people reach out recently who don’t feel comfortable talking face-to-face or on Zoom but still need someone to talk to.

So here’s something new I’m offering

*Text-Based Coaching Sessions*

We book in a 1-hour session

And during that time, we simply message.

No pressure to talk
No awkward silences
No feeling put on the spot

Just a safe space to open up in your own way, at your own pace.

This can be a really gentle first step if:
✨ Talking feels overwhelming
✨ You struggle to express things out loud
✨ You need time to think before responding
✨ You just feel more comfortable typing

You’re still fully supported it's just in a way that feels easier for you.

If this feels like something you (or your young person) would prefer, just drop me a message 💛

New coaching space!I have recently moved to Newhaven Enterprise Centre.As I see more and more children it became apparen...
15/04/2026

New coaching space!

I have recently moved to Newhaven Enterprise Centre.

As I see more and more children it became apparent that my current space wasn’t set up for the lovely parents waiting during their child’s coaching session.

Now I’m in a great room with lots of waiting space ⭐️

Confidence isn’t given. It’s builtWOW. What a weekend 🔥🥊So proud to have sponsored this incredible team… and even proude...
30/03/2026

Confidence isn’t given. It’s built

WOW. What a weekend 🔥🥊
So proud to have sponsored this incredible team… and even prouder that they ALL WON

But this isn’t just about boxing.

This is about:
✨ Confidence
✨ Discipline
✨ Believing in yourself when it’s hard

This is EXACTLY what I work on with young people every day.

Helping them step into their power in the ring and in life.

Because when they believe they can… they do.

🧡 www.theyouthcoach.co.uk

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