20/11/2025
It’s hard to put into words how proud I am of my father, I tried earlier this year, but now I get to finish the story the way I always hoped I would.
Some of you will know I shared a post a few months back about my Da and the unbelievable journey he’d been on since being diagnosed with cancer. At the time, he was in the middle of treatment, preparing for major surgery, and somehow improving every single metric of his health at the same time.
Well... he’s now completed surgery, finished more chemo, and has officially beaten cancer!
This isn’t our usual type of post. But I think it’s important, because so many stories go the other way. It’s easy to feel helpless, lost, or scared when cancer enters your life. So, if sharing this gives even one person hope, then it’s worth it.
From day one, my Da never flinched. He compartmentalised each obstacle as it came; chemo, surgery, infections ... deal with it, get past it, move onto the next. No complaints. No self-pity.
And he didn’t leave things to chance. When he found out he’d need life-saving surgery, he took his training seriously (for the first time in his life lol). He built strength, fitness and resilience. That work gave him the best possible shot and being part of that specific process has been the absolute highlight of my career and nothing really comes close.
On a personal level, I’ll never forget the moment I found out. I had just walked out of my first lecture for the coaching course, absolutely buzzing, excited, full of plans, and literally within a minute I got the news that dropped me to the lowest low I’ve ever felt.
My goal with Fortis this year ended up being really simple: just turn up. Keep the doors open. Give my members the best I could, even on the days I was physically and emotionally drained. I want to say a genuine thank you to everyone who supported me along the way.
To close this story I just want to say, My Da is my hero. I’ve never been prouder of anyone in my life. How he tackled this thing and never complained, that’s the kind of inspiration I hope everyone gets to witness at least once.