13/09/2021
💪 Do you have self-confidence?💪
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One of the biggest wins of having confidence is that it frees you to go where your heart must go!
Confidence gives you strength and It generates an energy that captures the conscious attention of others in your presence.
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💪 For most of what I know, I am generally perceived as confident and to a certain extent, that's true but I can confess that there has always been something unsettle within me. If in certain situations I can be confident, in others I was not.
Certain situations were still causing a certain feeling of not knowing what I was doing or what to do. This is not fear, which is fine.
🧐. In a corporate environment, we're taught to firmly shake hands, look in the eyes, walk straight etc. All signs of confidence, right?
What I notice is that a lot of these are pretending to be confident, acting confidently but most of it, come down as situational confidence.
💪 Studying myself and subjects of human character I became to discover that, nothing will give you more confidence than knowing yourself.
I can assure you, when you know yourself and have the awareness of who you really are, accept it or change what's not right inside, you become powerful.
☑️ This is what is called Self-Image based confidence, not dependent on external factors, it comes from within.
So, knowing myself gives me unshakeable confidence, not that situational confidence.
If your self-image is not that strong, start developing it by incorporating traits you want to. Get to know yourself.
☑️ The second step is to understand your strengths and weaknesses, by being extremely honest with yourself, you will find the weaknesses far outweigh the strengths.
With this awareness, your focus should be on developing your strengths and become friends with them.
With Love!💛💛💛
Lino