15/05/2026
Even personal trainers get nervous in new fitness spaces.
I know because I'm one of them.
If someone whose literal job is all about movement can feel this way, then your nervousness about trying a new class, joining a gym or changing your way of exercise is completely legitimate.
I’ve recently joined a newly opened, local class-based gym.
Having taught at boutique studios in London, these kind of spaces are familiar to me. I still, however, felt that low-level discomfort at the beginning of being in an environment I couldn't fully control and might feel out of my depth.
That feeling reminded me exactly why I don't do generic programmes with my 1-2-1 clients.
What feels very accessible to one person might feel completely overwhelming to another. Not recognising this ignores the very real emotional and psychological barriers which exist.
A real life example from one of my online clients last week:
She had been working with the same dumbbell weight for a little while. I told her we were going up slightly. Her face, however, said it all - there was instant panic.
Physically, she was definitely ready but emotionally, not quite.
So I made a deal with her. If she tries the heavier weight then she can drop back to the lower weight whenever she wants - she has full control over that.
She then relaxed. She gave it a go and guess what, she surprised herself!
She was more than ok with the heavier dumbbells and has been using them since.
This doesn’t mean staying in your comfort zone all the time but it does mean doing things gradually and on your terms so you don’t feel so out of your depth that you lose trust (with yourself and with me) and dread coming back.
Feeling some nerves or resistance is normal.
But if you’re absolutely dreading every single session then that's a sign something probably needs to change.
You're not being difficult or dramatic.
You just need an approach that actually fits how you experience movement.
And you 100% deserve that.
P.S. After my initial nervousness about joining the new gym, I now absolutely love it!