22/08/2021
Yoga for letting go:
Do you find it hard to let go of thoughts, feelings, desires and maybe even possessions? You are certainly not alone. 2020 was certainly a year where we all had to confront letting go: of plans we had made, of holidays and parties that couldn’t happen, of trips to see friends and family and maybe of life as we knew it. This was by no means easy and for me personally I really struggled to let go of plans. This is not something I do well, as most people who know me will tell you.
However, my practice of yoga did help. In the yoga texts (the Yoga Sutra specifically), they talk about the concept of “vairagya”: this can be translated as dispassion, detachment or letting go. The book Embodying the Yoga Sutra (by R. Roy and D. Charlton who I trained with) talk about it as “ cultivating an open space in which new possibilities can arise. We move away from the push/pull duality and towards a place where we have the freedom to use the support of abhyasa (practice and discipline) to disengage with that which blocks us”
Practicing yoga can help you to understand that holding onto things will inevitably serve you no purpose. It is about learning not to feel the pull by your attachment to things and perhaps becoming more Teflon coated as my yoga teacher once said to me, so as to allow the thoughts and feelings to wash over you without becoming stuck to you.
For me, this has been the most valuable lesson I could learn. It is not easy.
A practice that works specifically on a long exhale is a great way to explore the concept of letting go. Being able to let go of something allows for the possibility of something new to take its place and you can view the inhale and exhale as having the same affect: the exhale is about riding the body of something to allow for something new to come in.
Maybe next time you practice yoga, imagine letting go of something on the exhale and welcoming something new in on the inhale and see if you can notice any subtle changes. It won’t be the quick fix to all our life struggles (the ancient texts also make reference to the fact that you need to practice diligently too to feel the benefits of yoga) but perhaps it is a place to start.