26/06/2024
Mumming is INTENSE.
I was listening to Mother kind podcast the other day and someone (I can't remember the episode) mentioned how as parents, we're always on alert.
We have to be aware of potential risks for our children, attending to their needs, thinking about the next thing and even when they (or even we) sleep, we're still not really fully resting in case they wake up and need us.
Basically, we're constantly "on" which results in being in fight or flight.
It's not great for our nervous systems, which is probably why I (and probably most parents) feel PRETTY FRAZZLED.
This point in the podcast really stuck with me.
It made me think about how taking time out solo is so important.
Even if the girls are happily napping in the pram, it's more beneficial to take that walk without them.
We need to fully switch off.
To breathe.
Like really breathe.
And return home a better and more regulated parent.
So, here's to taking more walks all by myself ππΌ