13/12/2025
I can hardly bare to pick up my phone these days,
This week’s been heavy AF and the choice to be in offline-mode is about preserving the energy I have.
The side effect, the less I pick up my phone, the more human I feel - and the world is still turning.
My business is PEOPLE, Yes ok, I use tech, I have Zoom Calls, but exchange is more energising in Reality. I can’t hustle, I’m inconsistent, I’m a Projector, a parent, a person, a neurodivergent human making sense of a whole messy reality and choosing to be present with My People TODAY.
The background noise is still there, but I remind myself that I am the one with the ability to turn down the volume and change the tracks.
Fast, numb ‘living’ is dehumanising, when wr aren’t actively and consciously *choosing* then that is still a choice - sorry, but it’s true.
The Noise is distracting us, I think that’s the intention- who is making the noise, and Why?
quietly yet rapidly, the largely invisible consquence of this distraction, is solidifying & becoming our and our Children’s ‘NORMAL’
….it’s scary as F*ck.
Would I choose to have children again now?
Honestly, Probably not - AND YET HERE WERE ARE:
We are in the middle of NOW, living, maybe it’s a storm,
Maybe it’s the norm- whichever way we’re approach life, raising the Humans we created is involved - and WE choose this.
For them to exist as humans, in a increasingly Tech-Focused space, we, the parents, the People who CAN just about remember the days before this version of “normal’ took shape, need to stand still and re-define what the F* BEING A HUMAN MEANS.
WHAT MATTERS?
If you want to secure your Real Life Foundation, for you and your people, to Live, Unapologetically with Choice, In Safety and with awareness not reaction & numbness
- you know how to find me.
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Side note, since the update happened on my phone seemly I now can’t paste the hashtags I use ….
….That pretty much sums up the bullsh*t.