24/02/2020
One of my favourite quotes from
Something I think everyone needs to read & digest.
I have been guilty of this so many times in the past, like I’m sure a lot of you have.
Speaking to myself like a piece of cr*p, focusing on every little detail I don’t like & wording it in a way that would be hurtful if I said it to someone else.
Yet we accept it when we are talking to ourselves.
But how different would it be if you were speaking to a friend or loved one who felt that way?
Would you use those same words?
Or would you be a little more delicate and tactful. Would you choose your words wisely & say something that is actually helpful.
It’s not about lying to yourself or sugar coating it.
It’s about learning to use words & framing it in a way that’s actually useful.
We can show love to ourselves whilst still addressing areas we want to improve.
Improving your life, starts with improving your mind.
You wouldn’t put up with that sh*t if a friend was to say it, so stop accepting it from yourself.
You don’t have to love everything about yourself but you can give that feedback constructively.