01/07/2021
🚨 TW: ED discussion 🚨
Training for skills not scales. The photo in the middle was taken a couple of months into my recovery from anorexia, I was lost, I was drinking too much and was battling with trying to learn a new way of living… my relationship with exercise was completely broken, it was something I loved and was in a committed partnership with, but the relationship was toxic - it was like that meme with the confused woman and all the numbers/equations… constantly striving to reach a certain number, calories burned, time spent, did this outweigh that and would I be able to sleep that night knowing a target had been hit, being fully aware that all a hit target meant was a greater one the next day…I was chasing an ever moving target, but ultimately I was chasing death.
Of course not everyone that calorie counts or weighs themselves weekly will develop an eating disorder, but do you really want your life and happiness to be determined by a (probably inaccurate) piece of plastic?
I encourage all my clients to set themselves skills based goals, whether that’s taking the stairs to their flat without getting out of breath, chasing the kids round the park for half an hour without feeling completely exhausted afterwards, completing their first full push up or smashing that aerial or pole move they’ve been dreaming of…
These sorts of goals encourage you to see what exercise can really bring you, and that’s joy, a sense of achievement and a relationship with your body that makes you say ‘HELL YEAH I DID THAT!’… and more often than not when we start to feel better about what we can do we then start to feel better about how we look.
The outer two photos are screenshots from my training yesterday at - I have no idea what I weigh but I feel strong and happy that I’m still here, something that I really didn’t think would be possible a few years ago.
Find the exercise that enhances your life and doesn’t imprison it.