04/06/2026
Gosh I really don't even know where to start! after months of radio silence & procrastination; welcome to another long sporadic ramble that will go off on a multitude of tangents! Keep up if you can 🤣
I set up pony pursuits in the memory of a wonderful man Mr Bosley who made my childhood so special. I am council house born & bred & in no way ashamed of that, tbh it gave me the determination & tenacity to succeed in life. However, there were none of the safety nets that exist today & childhood was not full of days out, holidays & luxuries that parents pressure themselves to provide today. So when Mr Bosley came into our lives or perhaps us into his (my sister & I) he allowed us to care for his ponies as if they were our own & it was magical. My overwhelming passion for ponies was nurtured & every spare moment of my life I was "up at Mr Bosleys". He was a retired farmer with a wealth of knowledge who gave us a free pass into the elitist world of equestrianism with no financial obligation to be there! He was an inspiration & the basis of the Pony Pursuits philosophy "to provide a non elitist environment in which ponies are accessible to everyone regardless of age, experience & ability to pay.
We have been INCLUSIVE in so many ways, long before people spoke about inclusivity. I didn't realise until now that I was ahead of the game & finally at the ripe old age of (not telling you), I am extending that inclusivity to myself, after finally being diagnosed with Autism & ADHD the daily challenges I have faced along the way are starting to make more sense.
There were no support networkorks in place throughout my childhood, no guidance no understanding no focus on resilience. It started in school; being reprimanded, slapped & shouted at, this is where a child starts to feel disconnected & it shaped me as a person.
I feel sad that happy times were & still are ruined by perceived expectations, stress, guilt, over analysis, RSD, defensiveness etc
Years of being judged, labelled & misunderstood were triggering. As a result, I am Marmite!
Let's build a future where everyone can truly be themselves.