08/09/2026
I want to share something that doesn't get talked about nearly enough, and once you know it, it completely changes how you think about food.
As women move through their 40s and into perimenopause, research shows they can lose nearly 6% of their lean muscle mass. And almost half of that loss happens during perimenopause, not after it. Before you've even reached menopause.
Now, muscle isn't just about looking toned. Muscle is your metabolic engine. It's what helps you burn calories at rest, keeps your energy up, protects your joints, and keeps you physically capable of doing the things you love. Losing it is one of the main reasons so many women find their body composition shifting in their 40s even when nothing about their diet has changed.
The good news? You can do something about it. And it's more straightforward than most people think.
The biggest change most women need to make is eating more protein. Not in a complicated, faddy way, just consistently making sure each main meal has a good protein source (roughly 25β30g). That might look like eggs and smoked salmon at breakfast, a chicken salad at lunch, and a piece of fish for your tea. Simple, satisfying food, not a punishing meal plan.
Current UK guidelines actually underestimate how much protein women in midlife need, and research now suggests aiming 25β50% higher than the standard recommendation.
Inside my 6-week programme, this is one of the first things we look at: building a way of eating that's genuinely sustainable for your lifestyle, not a short-term fix that leaves you hungry and frustrated.
One of my clients, a mum of three with a demanding job and barely a minute to herself, told me that after a previous coach told her to, she'd spent years eating "clean" but always felt starving. We removed all the misinformation from the conversation, and then worked on her protein intake together; the hunger went. The energy came back. And for the first time, her body started changing in the way she'd always hoped.
If you're doing all the "right" things but not seeing the results, after working in the industry for over 3 decades, I've found it's usually the supposedly "right" things that are one of the biggest issues. Drop me a message. I'd love to help.