Coaching by LiLi

Coaching by LiLi ๐Ÿš€ Coaching for motivated women who want to reclaim self acceptance and sky rocket their confidence!

So, it's been a while since I did much on this page.This last year has been interesting to say the least, with lots of p...
10/11/2023

So, it's been a while since I did much on this page.

This last year has been interesting to say the least, with lots of personal changes and challenges that needed my attention.

However...

In that time, I have been working a lot in my wellbeing.

I've focused on prioritising what makes me happy, what calms me in stressful situations, I've learned to set boundaries where I never used to before because I people pleased too much.

I've taken responsibility for my health through better eating and weight training (and I do not feeling guilty for enjoying food and wine)

In doing so, my confidence has increased. More in some areas than others if I'm completely honest, but I'm worming on the rest - its an ongoing process.

For example, I decorated my whole house almost singlehandedly.

I don't decorate. I'd convinced myself I couldn't do it, and had no self belief that I could.

But I have! And this is not to brag, this is because, actually, I've realised I've never really been my biggest cheerleader, and everyone absolutely should be.

If you don't support yourself, if you don't shout about what you've accomplished, then who will?

And do you know what? The result from my well-being work has increased, and is continuing to increase, my confidence.

In myself, my thoughts, my decisions, my beliefs, my intuition.

Everything!

And so I'm tweaking my coaching.

I'm going to focus on supporting you with your wellbeing, and as a result, your confidence will naturally increase.

So if that's something you're interested in, keep your eyes peeled for more info on my updated sessions and offerings ๐Ÿฉท

So, it's been a while since I did much on this page.This last year has been interesting to say the least, with lots of p...
10/11/2023

So, it's been a while since I did much on this page.

This last year has been interesting to say the least, with lots of personal changes and challenges that needed my attention.

However...

In that time, I have been working a lot in my wellbeing.

I've focused on prioritising what makes me happy, what calms me in stressful situations, I've learned to set boundaries where I never used to before because I people pleased too much.

I've taken responsibility for my health through better eating and weight training (and I do not feeling guilty for enjoying food and wine)

In doing so, my confidence has increased. More in some areas than others if I'm completely honest, but I'm worming on the rest - its an ongoing process.

For example, I decorated my whole house almost singlehandedly.

I don't decorate. I'd convinced myself I couldn't do it, and had no self belief that I could.

But I have! And this is not to brag, this is because, actually, I've realised I've never really been my biggest cheerleader, and everyone absolutely should be.

If you don't support yourself, if you don't shout about what you've accomplished, then who will?

And do you know what? The result from my well-being work has increased, and is continuing to increase, my confidence.

In myself, my thoughts, my decisions, my beliefs, my intuition.

Everything!

And so I'm tweaking my coaching.

I'm going to focus on supporting you with your wellbeing, and as a result, your confidence will naturally increase.

So if that's something you're interested in, keep your eyes peeled for more info on my updated sessions and offerings ๐Ÿฉท

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ž๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐œ๐ž:๐Ÿ”ฅYou let go of "supposed to be", and focused on your own timeline ๐Ÿ”ฅYou started prioritising how y...
21/02/2023

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ž๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐œ๐ž:

๐Ÿ”ฅYou let go of "supposed to be", and focused on your own timeline

๐Ÿ”ฅYou started prioritising how your life feels, instead of how it looks

๐Ÿ”ฅYou started giving yourself the same love you've always given others

Sometimes you can feel guilty doing things for yourself.

That's a wound you need to heal - making yourself happy is not selfish, it's mandatory!

You can make so many more people happy when you're happy, and confident, with yourself.

These can be simple things like:
โคA walk outside
โคTime to exercise
โคLeaving toxic people behind
โคBeauty treatments
โคTime with friends
โคTime with family
โคReading
..whatever makes you smile, do it more!

Make yourself happier whenever you canโค

๐˜“๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ... โคSometimes we miss these moments because we're too busy ...
23/12/2022

๐˜“๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ... โค

Sometimes we miss these moments because we're too busy caught up in the stresses of every day life.

Too busy trying to make everything perfect.

Learn to slow down and enjoy the magic that's happening around you every day โœจ

22/12/2022

And that's because they have no idea!

Because it's not an external obstacle stopping them.

It's something internal.

It's something within themselves.

It's the beliefs they hold about themselves:

๐ŸšซI'm not good enough
๐ŸšซI'm not smart enough
๐ŸšซPeople like me never have that sort of thing
๐ŸšซI fail at everything..and so much more!

If you find you tell yourself these kinds of things, if these thoughts pop into your head when you think about things you would like, then these are beliefs you hold about yourself.

We call these your limiting beliefs- because they limit you in achieving what it is you want in your life.

The good news is that you can change these, and so empower yourself more.

But when you don't realise what they are, you can't identify what it is that's actually stopping you.

So next time you're thinking of a goal you want to achieve, or something you want to manifest into your life, start listening to the internal voice you hear and what it's telling you.

Do you hear some of the examples above?

Any phrases or sentences that start:
โš ๏ธI can't
โš ๏ธI won't
โš ๏ธI haven't
โš ๏ธI don't
..they all tend to suggest you hold a velvet about yourself...


ส€แด‡แด˜แด‡แด€แด› แด€๊œฐแด›แด‡ส€ แดแด‡:"I deserve it all.The career.The love.The family.The peace.The life I truly want."โค
19/12/2022

ส€แด‡แด˜แด‡แด€แด› แด€๊œฐแด›แด‡ส€ แดแด‡:

"I deserve it all.
The career.
The love.
The family.
The peace.
The life I truly want."

โค

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ??ย Who. Gives. A. F*ck?People are always going to judge:you, your life style, your decisions.Unfort...
15/12/2022

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ??ย 

Who. Gives. A. F*ck?

People are always going to judge:
you,
your life style,
your decisions.

Unfortunately, that's just how people are.

So if that's the case, why not make sure you're living the life ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ want to live, the life you ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ to live?

One that makes you happy, regardless of others opinions โค

โค๏ธ โค๏ธ

ษชแด›'๊œฑ ษดแด‡แด แด‡ส€ แด›แดแด สŸแด€แด›แด‡ แด›แด แด›แด€แด‹แด‡ แด›สœแด‡ ๊œฐษชส€๊œฑแด› ๊œฑแด›แด‡แด˜...No matter how small it is, you'll still be one step closer than You were be...
30/11/2022

ษชแด›'๊œฑ ษดแด‡แด แด‡ส€ แด›แดแด สŸแด€แด›แด‡ แด›แด แด›แด€แด‹แด‡ แด›สœแด‡ ๊œฐษชส€๊œฑแด› ๊œฑแด›แด‡แด˜...

No matter how small it is, you'll still be one step closer than You were before ๐Ÿ‘ฃ

If you're putting off doing something because it'll take 4 years, and you're worried that at that age you'll be 'too old', you'll still be that age in 4 years.

The only difference being, if you start working towards your goal, you'll also have that under your belt in 4 years time.

No matter how small...Take. The. Step.

๐Ÿ…ณ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ…ฐ๐Ÿ…ผ ๐Ÿ…ฑ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ถ, ๐Ÿ…ฐ๐Ÿ…ฒ๐Ÿ…ท๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ†…๐Ÿ…ด ๐Ÿ…ฑ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ถ... ๐Ÿฆ‹๐ŸŒŸ Dream small, achieve small...Your imagination and self-belief are your only limits.If you c...
24/11/2022

๐Ÿ…ณ๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ…ฐ๐Ÿ…ผ ๐Ÿ…ฑ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ถ, ๐Ÿ…ฐ๐Ÿ…ฒ๐Ÿ…ท๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ด๐Ÿ†…๐Ÿ…ด ๐Ÿ…ฑ๐Ÿ…ธ๐Ÿ…ถ... ๐Ÿฆ‹๐ŸŒŸ

Dream small, achieve small...

Your imagination and self-belief are your only limits.

If you can learn to transform the negative self-talk that holds you back, you can start to live a limitless life with ease โค

23/11/2022

Urgh...anyone else ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

It's OK to tell people they've overstepped your boundaries!

Even if you have to throw your phone away as soon as you've pressed 'send'...

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