21/06/2026
💙 Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there today. And to everyone whose Dad is in heaven, thinking of you too 💙
Today was my first Father’s Day without my Dad. In fact, it’s only been three days. Three days since we lost him. If I’m honest, I wasn’t quite sure what to do with today.
There was nowhere to take a card. Nowhere to take a present. No place to visit yet. No funeral has happened. Just an empty space where Dad should be.
This morning I told myself I wasn’t going to spend the day being sad. Dad would have absolutely told us off for that. In fact, he’d probably have told us to stop sitting around crying, get on with it, and “grow up” 😂💙
So instead, I’ve tried to remember the Dad before the hospital. The Dad before dementia. The Dad who took me to Hickstead year after year as a child. So today I sat and watched the Hickstead Derby on TV, thinking about those memories and all the times we shared there. And because I couldn’t buy him a Father’s Day present, I ordered something for the stables instead.
The grief is still there. The tears are still there. The sadness is still there. But so are the memories. And today I’m choosing to hold onto those 💙
Happy Father’s Day Dad.
You’ve finally got the peace and quiet you’ve earned 💙✨