13/06/2026
I wasn’t sure whether to post this but here is my tangent for part two and let me add some nuance to this…
Basically the thing I keep coming back to is this…
If your body confidence only exists when your body is the trend, is it actually body confidence?
And I totally get that celebs and influencers are just humans too with their own relationship with their bodies
But how many people built brands, followings and businesses around body confidence, body positivity and loving yourself as you are...
Only for their bodies to change the second the beauty standard changed??
Because if your confidence is dependent on your body type staying in fashion, that’s not really confidence
And unfortunately these people do have huge influence
Millions of women and young girls watch them, trust them and often buy from them
So when somebody spends years telling you to love yourself as you are, then quietly shrinks themselves when skinny becomes fashionable again, I think it’s fair to question whether they ever truly believed what they were selling
Or whether they were just comfortable whilst they happened to fit the trend
And just remember the trends are constantly changing so if we’re going to do the work on body image to stop feeling like crap every time that happens
It has to go deeper than that
Otherwise we’re just chasing whichever body type society decides is worthy next